Calvin Corelli

So you just keep riding it.

You just keep going.

For me, what happened was, and sometimes it takes a while.

So for me, it was like five mornings in a row where I woke up like this at 4.30.

And I was like, all right, I'm just going to breathe into it and feel as best as I can.

And then finally, on the fifth morning, I was able to feel it and then go underneath the feeling.

And so underneath that layer of panic and fear, I discover this grief and rage, like really intense grief and rage feeling.

I was like, and I could feel it.

I was like, oh God, this is amazing.

Like now it's moving.

I feel it shifting.

And I kept digging.

I was like, fuck, this is great.

Kept digging.

And then under that, I found this victim persona.

So have you, we've all, I bet you all have given advice to someone where they're like, ah, I can't solve this.

And you're like, well, why don't you do this?

And then they're like, no, I can't because no.

And then you're like, OK, then what about this?

And they're like, no, I really can't.