Cameron Hanes

But that's not what we're settled for. So he said he wanted to quit. He didn't want to be a deputy more. He wanted to be a ranger because he had more to offer this world. And I was thinking, was that me who fucked up and said this, that just having a regular job was somehow failing? And I just had so many regrets. And I was just like, I told him he's getting ready to go to basic training.

But that's not what we're settled for. So he said he wanted to quit. He didn't want to be a deputy more. He wanted to be a ranger because he had more to offer this world. And I was thinking, was that me who fucked up and said this, that just having a regular job was somehow failing? And I just had so many regrets. And I was just like, I told him he's getting ready to go to basic training.

But that's not what we're settled for. So he said he wanted to quit. He didn't want to be a deputy more. He wanted to be a ranger because he had more to offer this world. And I was thinking, was that me who fucked up and said this, that just having a regular job was somehow failing? And I just had so many regrets. And I was just like, I told him he's getting ready to go to basic training.

And I'm like, I said, Tanner, I'm like, there's nothing wrong with having a regular job, being a family man. And I said, there's nothing. I was wrong. I was wrong to say what I said, raising new kids. And, um, cause I was thinking about what if he got deployed and was killed? And it's just like, because of shit I said, trying to make my boys tough and this is a result.

And I'm like, I said, Tanner, I'm like, there's nothing wrong with having a regular job, being a family man. And I said, there's nothing. I was wrong. I was wrong to say what I said, raising new kids. And, um, cause I was thinking about what if he got deployed and was killed? And it's just like, because of shit I said, trying to make my boys tough and this is a result.

And I'm like, I said, Tanner, I'm like, there's nothing wrong with having a regular job, being a family man. And I said, there's nothing. I was wrong. I was wrong to say what I said, raising new kids. And, um, cause I was thinking about what if he got deployed and was killed? And it's just like, because of shit I said, trying to make my boys tough and this is a result.

So yeah, I was like, yeah, I definitely have had regrets over how, how hard I pushed them.

So yeah, I was like, yeah, I definitely have had regrets over how, how hard I pushed them.

So yeah, I was like, yeah, I definitely have had regrets over how, how hard I pushed them.

you know so yeah it's uh and and i was thinking also too it's not just like what you do but when you have that mindset about life is competition um hard work is is the the key whatever that's that is impacting how you talk and how you carry yourself because everybody says says the right thing they they tell their kids what you're supposed to tell your kids it's like

you know so yeah it's uh and and i was thinking also too it's not just like what you do but when you have that mindset about life is competition um hard work is is the the key whatever that's that is impacting how you talk and how you carry yourself because everybody says says the right thing they they tell their kids what you're supposed to tell your kids it's like

you know so yeah it's uh and and i was thinking also too it's not just like what you do but when you have that mindset about life is competition um hard work is is the the key whatever that's that is impacting how you talk and how you carry yourself because everybody says says the right thing they they tell their kids what you're supposed to tell your kids it's like

as you said, no, you hold the door for women. You, you know, be respectful. Everybody says the right stuff, but how you carry yourself and then how you, how you talk, not when you're delivering some ultimatum or some direction, but just how you, what's your mindset. And that's when it's not controlled, when it's not, you're not thinking about it. So

as you said, no, you hold the door for women. You, you know, be respectful. Everybody says the right stuff, but how you carry yourself and then how you, how you talk, not when you're delivering some ultimatum or some direction, but just how you, what's your mindset. And that's when it's not controlled, when it's not, you're not thinking about it. So

as you said, no, you hold the door for women. You, you know, be respectful. Everybody says the right stuff, but how you carry yourself and then how you, how you talk, not when you're delivering some ultimatum or some direction, but just how you, what's your mindset. And that's when it's not controlled, when it's not, you're not thinking about it. So

My mindset was always, let's do more, perform more, push harder. I guess to your point that even if I wasn't, they were seeing that. Of course. It's, yeah, it's, you know, you talked about Truett, you know, originally, but even for him, your story sort of reminded me of his, like, people see him now and they're like, I mean, he's easy to, he gets hate too. Cause he's easy to hate. Definitely.

My mindset was always, let's do more, perform more, push harder. I guess to your point that even if I wasn't, they were seeing that. Of course. It's, yeah, it's, you know, you talked about Truett, you know, originally, but even for him, your story sort of reminded me of his, like, people see him now and they're like, I mean, he's easy to, he gets hate too. Cause he's easy to hate. Definitely.

My mindset was always, let's do more, perform more, push harder. I guess to your point that even if I wasn't, they were seeing that. Of course. It's, yeah, it's, you know, you talked about Truett, you know, originally, but even for him, your story sort of reminded me of his, like, people see him now and they're like, I mean, he's easy to, he gets hate too. Cause he's easy to hate. Definitely.

Um, he's got a lot going for him and that's, that will build some resentment over with some guys, but for him, he lost for years. He, he didn't miss a day lifting weights for like 14 years, still hasn't. I started them lifting when they're 14, both him and Tanner. And since that time, he hasn't missed more than a day. So it was loss after loss after loss. He's like tiny, not getting big.

Um, he's got a lot going for him and that's, that will build some resentment over with some guys, but for him, he lost for years. He, he didn't miss a day lifting weights for like 14 years, still hasn't. I started them lifting when they're 14, both him and Tanner. And since that time, he hasn't missed more than a day. So it was loss after loss after loss. He's like tiny, not getting big.