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Cameron Hanes

๐Ÿ‘ค Speaker
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Modern Wisdom
#940 - Cameron Hanes - The Harsh Price Of Extreme Performance

All that to say that, yeah, I had the kids do really hard things for many years to prepare them for what I said was life's challenges. And it made it, you know, if I was, it reminded me, did you ever see the movie Tree of Life?

Modern Wisdom
#940 - Cameron Hanes - The Harsh Price Of Extreme Performance

All that to say that, yeah, I had the kids do really hard things for many years to prepare them for what I said was life's challenges. And it made it, you know, if I was, it reminded me, did you ever see the movie Tree of Life?

Modern Wisdom
#940 - Cameron Hanes - The Harsh Price Of Extreme Performance

So Brad Pitt's in it and great movie, but he was super hard dad there. When he would leave, it was like fucking playtime, right? Mom, kids jumping on the beds. And then dad would come home and be like, oh God. So I said, this reminds me of me when I was, when you go out of town, it's just playtime, come back. It's like, oh shit. So that's not great when you're the bad guy all the time.

Modern Wisdom
#940 - Cameron Hanes - The Harsh Price Of Extreme Performance

So Brad Pitt's in it and great movie, but he was super hard dad there. When he would leave, it was like fucking playtime, right? Mom, kids jumping on the beds. And then dad would come home and be like, oh God. So I said, this reminds me of me when I was, when you go out of town, it's just playtime, come back. It's like, oh shit. So that's not great when you're the bad guy all the time.

Modern Wisdom
#940 - Cameron Hanes - The Harsh Price Of Extreme Performance

So Brad Pitt's in it and great movie, but he was super hard dad there. When he would leave, it was like fucking playtime, right? Mom, kids jumping on the beds. And then dad would come home and be like, oh God. So I said, this reminds me of me when I was, when you go out of town, it's just playtime, come back. It's like, oh shit. So that's not great when you're the bad guy all the time.

Modern Wisdom
#940 - Cameron Hanes - The Harsh Price Of Extreme Performance

You know, dads are usually the disciplinary and that's whatever. But I was also like, you know, making them do these really hard things. So they see now and they see all the success, but it wasn't great. And anybody from the outside in would look and say, what's wrong with that? That dad is pushing those kids too hard. You know, it's like any basketball game. I'm just like...

Modern Wisdom
#940 - Cameron Hanes - The Harsh Price Of Extreme Performance

You know, dads are usually the disciplinary and that's whatever. But I was also like, you know, making them do these really hard things. So they see now and they see all the success, but it wasn't great. And anybody from the outside in would look and say, what's wrong with that? That dad is pushing those kids too hard. You know, it's like any basketball game. I'm just like...

Modern Wisdom
#940 - Cameron Hanes - The Harsh Price Of Extreme Performance

You know, dads are usually the disciplinary and that's whatever. But I was also like, you know, making them do these really hard things. So they see now and they see all the success, but it wasn't great. And anybody from the outside in would look and say, what's wrong with that? That dad is pushing those kids too hard. You know, it's like any basketball game. I'm just like...

Modern Wisdom
#940 - Cameron Hanes - The Harsh Price Of Extreme Performance

a loose ball you better be on that floor and i said i want to see floor burns on your knees i want you diving on i want you playing the harder than any kid out there so that's a hard That's a hard thing to live up to. Kids just want to have fun. They want to play. They're not looking to compete every day, but I made them compete. So it was a challenge.

Modern Wisdom
#940 - Cameron Hanes - The Harsh Price Of Extreme Performance

a loose ball you better be on that floor and i said i want to see floor burns on your knees i want you diving on i want you playing the harder than any kid out there so that's a hard That's a hard thing to live up to. Kids just want to have fun. They want to play. They're not looking to compete every day, but I made them compete. So it was a challenge.

Modern Wisdom
#940 - Cameron Hanes - The Harsh Price Of Extreme Performance

a loose ball you better be on that floor and i said i want to see floor burns on your knees i want you diving on i want you playing the harder than any kid out there so that's a hard That's a hard thing to live up to. Kids just want to have fun. They want to play. They're not looking to compete every day, but I made them compete. So it was a challenge.

Modern Wisdom
#940 - Cameron Hanes - The Harsh Price Of Extreme Performance

Now you see what that results in, you know, and, you know, Tanner, he was a ranger. He's fricking badass. It's, probably tougher than Truett and then Truett's, you know, doing these crazy things and getting all this attention. And yeah, I mean, it's great. I'm, I'm glad to see it, but, um, I didn't, I wasn't perfect raising.

Modern Wisdom
#940 - Cameron Hanes - The Harsh Price Of Extreme Performance

Now you see what that results in, you know, and, you know, Tanner, he was a ranger. He's fricking badass. It's, probably tougher than Truett and then Truett's, you know, doing these crazy things and getting all this attention. And yeah, I mean, it's great. I'm, I'm glad to see it, but, um, I didn't, I wasn't perfect raising.

Modern Wisdom
#940 - Cameron Hanes - The Harsh Price Of Extreme Performance

Now you see what that results in, you know, and, you know, Tanner, he was a ranger. He's fricking badass. It's, probably tougher than Truett and then Truett's, you know, doing these crazy things and getting all this attention. And yeah, I mean, it's great. I'm, I'm glad to see it, but, um, I didn't, I wasn't perfect raising.

Modern Wisdom
#940 - Cameron Hanes - The Harsh Price Of Extreme Performance

Yeah, I regret, um, I regret, I remember when Tanner went to the army, um, He's a deputy back home. Very proud of him. Such an important job. He, you know, a corrections officer just worked at the jail, but still it's, you know, a good job. It's like paid, paid the bills. I was proud of him. We need people who need men to do that.

Modern Wisdom
#940 - Cameron Hanes - The Harsh Price Of Extreme Performance

Yeah, I regret, um, I regret, I remember when Tanner went to the army, um, He's a deputy back home. Very proud of him. Such an important job. He, you know, a corrections officer just worked at the jail, but still it's, you know, a good job. It's like paid, paid the bills. I was proud of him. We need people who need men to do that.

Modern Wisdom
#940 - Cameron Hanes - The Harsh Price Of Extreme Performance

Yeah, I regret, um, I regret, I remember when Tanner went to the army, um, He's a deputy back home. Very proud of him. Such an important job. He, you know, a corrections officer just worked at the jail, but still it's, you know, a good job. It's like paid, paid the bills. I was proud of him. We need people who need men to do that.

Modern Wisdom
#940 - Cameron Hanes - The Harsh Price Of Extreme Performance

So he said he was going to join the army and he wanted to be a ranger. And I'm just like, you know, you get deployed and I'm thinking, what if, I think it was because I would tell them that average is failing. If you look around, you see the average person. That's not us. That's not what we want to be. So we're not, yes, people need to work at gas stations and do things, whatever. That's fine.

Modern Wisdom
#940 - Cameron Hanes - The Harsh Price Of Extreme Performance

So he said he was going to join the army and he wanted to be a ranger. And I'm just like, you know, you get deployed and I'm thinking, what if, I think it was because I would tell them that average is failing. If you look around, you see the average person. That's not us. That's not what we want to be. So we're not, yes, people need to work at gas stations and do things, whatever. That's fine.

Modern Wisdom
#940 - Cameron Hanes - The Harsh Price Of Extreme Performance

So he said he was going to join the army and he wanted to be a ranger. And I'm just like, you know, you get deployed and I'm thinking, what if, I think it was because I would tell them that average is failing. If you look around, you see the average person. That's not us. That's not what we want to be. So we're not, yes, people need to work at gas stations and do things, whatever. That's fine.