Carly

And in my head, I'm like, no one's ever that busy. And then he kept saying, well, you've never talked to an athlete before. So you don't know what, what it's like. When I say I'm busy, it's not just a regular guy. I'm busy. It's, I have all these practices I have. And then when I get home, I don't always want to talk to someone. So like you say there are excuses. But they're not excuses.

And in my head, I'm like, I feel like they're still excuses because like you didn't have two seconds to like call. And like, I'm not trying to be needy. I wasn't trying to like tell him what to do. But in my head, when someone wants to talk to you, they will, even if it's a little, hey, I had a really busy day. I'd love to call you later or I'll talk to you tomorrow. I've had a really busy day.

And in my head, I'm like, I feel like they're still excuses because like you didn't have two seconds to like call. And like, I'm not trying to be needy. I wasn't trying to like tell him what to do. But in my head, when someone wants to talk to you, they will, even if it's a little, hey, I had a really busy day. I'd love to call you later or I'll talk to you tomorrow. I've had a really busy day.

And in my head, I'm like, I feel like they're still excuses because like you didn't have two seconds to like call. And like, I'm not trying to be needy. I wasn't trying to like tell him what to do. But in my head, when someone wants to talk to you, they will, even if it's a little, hey, I had a really busy day. I'd love to call you later or I'll talk to you tomorrow. I've had a really busy day.

It's just a little bit of communication goes a long way. But in his head, it's like he wants to do it his way. So I tried to like and that was fine. He wasn't getting what I was saying. And I'm not going to like argue with someone to make someone call me or text me. So I was just like, hey, no big deal. You seem really busy. You have a lot going on.

It's just a little bit of communication goes a long way. But in his head, it's like he wants to do it his way. So I tried to like and that was fine. He wasn't getting what I was saying. And I'm not going to like argue with someone to make someone call me or text me. So I was just like, hey, no big deal. You seem really busy. You have a lot going on.

It's just a little bit of communication goes a long way. But in his head, it's like he wants to do it his way. So I tried to like and that was fine. He wasn't getting what I was saying. And I'm not going to like argue with someone to make someone call me or text me. So I was just like, hey, no big deal. You seem really busy. You have a lot going on.

I just think that it's best if we go our own ways. And like he immediately responded and he was like, well, I didn't see that coming. Like they're not excuses. Like you keep saying they're excuses and they're not.

I just think that it's best if we go our own ways. And like he immediately responded and he was like, well, I didn't see that coming. Like they're not excuses. Like you keep saying they're excuses and they're not.

I just think that it's best if we go our own ways. And like he immediately responded and he was like, well, I didn't see that coming. Like they're not excuses. Like you keep saying they're excuses and they're not.

So from there, I was like, okay, maybe you're, maybe you're being genuine. Like, I don't know. I've never talked to an athlete before. So I have no idea exactly how rigorous your schedule are. You are there. You seem busy. These he's in, he goes to a really good school for football. So like, I felt like I, maybe I was wrong. So that happened.

So from there, I was like, okay, maybe you're, maybe you're being genuine. Like, I don't know. I've never talked to an athlete before. So I have no idea exactly how rigorous your schedule are. You are there. You seem busy. These he's in, he goes to a really good school for football. So like, I felt like I, maybe I was wrong. So that happened.

So from there, I was like, okay, maybe you're, maybe you're being genuine. Like, I don't know. I've never talked to an athlete before. So I have no idea exactly how rigorous your schedule are. You are there. You seem busy. These he's in, he goes to a really good school for football. So like, I felt like I, maybe I was wrong. So that happened.

And then I still, there were signs and there was feelings in me that was like, I feel like he's talking to someone else because like,

And then I still, there were signs and there was feelings in me that was like, I feel like he's talking to someone else because like,

And then I still, there were signs and there was feelings in me that was like, I feel like he's talking to someone else because like,

the communication slows down you don't ask to hang out for a month like all these little signs that kind of i knew in my gut weren't just i'm busy and then i kind of let it go i was just like i'm just gonna see how things go i'm not gonna like bother him like much i'm just gonna let like play it out that's when i think the text that i sent in we the snapchat heart disappeared which means he was talking to someone way more than he was talking to me okay and in my head i was like boom okay

the communication slows down you don't ask to hang out for a month like all these little signs that kind of i knew in my gut weren't just i'm busy and then i kind of let it go i was just like i'm just gonna see how things go i'm not gonna like bother him like much i'm just gonna let like play it out that's when i think the text that i sent in we the snapchat heart disappeared which means he was talking to someone way more than he was talking to me okay and in my head i was like boom okay

the communication slows down you don't ask to hang out for a month like all these little signs that kind of i knew in my gut weren't just i'm busy and then i kind of let it go i was just like i'm just gonna see how things go i'm not gonna like bother him like much i'm just gonna let like play it out that's when i think the text that i sent in we the snapchat heart disappeared which means he was talking to someone way more than he was talking to me okay and in my head i was like boom okay

everything that I knew is kind of clicking together. And that's when the texts come in about him saying, you know, how dare a 26 year old act like this. I sent you a thousand dollars for Valentine's day. I sent you flowers, like all of these things. Like I always send you money when you go out to go eat.