Carly

I think that people knowing that they're not alone, and that's why I love what you're doing is you're not alone. There's lots of us friends and families of relatives with seriously mentally ill people all over the world, I'm sure. We've all sacrificed a lot of time and energy and worry and fear. And the what ifs and the should haves and the guilt, right? We feel guilty.

Well, maybe I should have said this or shouldn't have done that or what have you. And in that, it's not productive. It's not productive. The best thing we can do for our loved ones is to take care of ourselves. It all comes down to we have to stay healthy. If we go downhill, we're depressed and we're in a bad place. We're not helping them.

Well, maybe I should have said this or shouldn't have done that or what have you. And in that, it's not productive. It's not productive. The best thing we can do for our loved ones is to take care of ourselves. It all comes down to we have to stay healthy. If we go downhill, we're depressed and we're in a bad place. We're not helping them.

Well, maybe I should have said this or shouldn't have done that or what have you. And in that, it's not productive. It's not productive. The best thing we can do for our loved ones is to take care of ourselves. It all comes down to we have to stay healthy. If we go downhill, we're depressed and we're in a bad place. We're not helping them.

So the best thing we can do, the bottom line for ourselves is to take care of ourselves. It's okay to have fun. It's okay to have fun. It's okay to enjoy your life. And we can't sacrifice our life because this is happening or happening to somebody we love. We can't sacrifice our life for them. And that's the best thing we can do is to stay healthy ourselves.

So the best thing we can do, the bottom line for ourselves is to take care of ourselves. It's okay to have fun. It's okay to have fun. It's okay to enjoy your life. And we can't sacrifice our life because this is happening or happening to somebody we love. We can't sacrifice our life for them. And that's the best thing we can do is to stay healthy ourselves.

So the best thing we can do, the bottom line for ourselves is to take care of ourselves. It's okay to have fun. It's okay to have fun. It's okay to enjoy your life. And we can't sacrifice our life because this is happening or happening to somebody we love. We can't sacrifice our life for them. And that's the best thing we can do is to stay healthy ourselves.

Yeah, definitely not saying it's easy, but I think we have to realize that it's something...

Yeah, definitely not saying it's easy, but I think we have to realize that it's something...

Yeah, definitely not saying it's easy, but I think we have to realize that it's something...

Absolutely. Absolutely. Yeah, that's why the bottom line is we have to take care. So if he turns around and I don't know what happens, I want to be in a good place. If we're to have a relationship, things turn around, things turn around 100%. He's stable again. He needs assistance for whatever reason.

Absolutely. Absolutely. Yeah, that's why the bottom line is we have to take care. So if he turns around and I don't know what happens, I want to be in a good place. If we're to have a relationship, things turn around, things turn around 100%. He's stable again. He needs assistance for whatever reason.

Absolutely. Absolutely. Yeah, that's why the bottom line is we have to take care. So if he turns around and I don't know what happens, I want to be in a good place. If we're to have a relationship, things turn around, things turn around 100%. He's stable again. He needs assistance for whatever reason.

Hi, my name's Carly. I'm 26 years old and I wanted to know if the D1 quarterback athlete I was talking to was manipulating me or am I just being dramatic?

Hi, my name's Carly. I'm 26 years old and I wanted to know if the D1 quarterback athlete I was talking to was manipulating me or am I just being dramatic?

Hi, my name's Carly. I'm 26 years old and I wanted to know if the D1 quarterback athlete I was talking to was manipulating me or am I just being dramatic?

Okay. So, yeah. So he's like in his last year, like kind of like grad moment trying to make it type of deal. So he's 22 and we got connected through Snapchat. You know, let me get your Snapchat, which immediately should have been like whatever. But he was just like, what's your Snapchat? And I was like, OK, cool. Like we were at the bars. It wasn't a big deal. That's how we started talking.

Okay. So, yeah. So he's like in his last year, like kind of like grad moment trying to make it type of deal. So he's 22 and we got connected through Snapchat. You know, let me get your Snapchat, which immediately should have been like whatever. But he was just like, what's your Snapchat? And I was like, OK, cool. Like we were at the bars. It wasn't a big deal. That's how we started talking.

Okay. So, yeah. So he's like in his last year, like kind of like grad moment trying to make it type of deal. So he's 22 and we got connected through Snapchat. You know, let me get your Snapchat, which immediately should have been like whatever. But he was just like, what's your Snapchat? And I was like, OK, cool. Like we were at the bars. It wasn't a big deal. That's how we started talking.

We talked for a while and then I had to go back up to that school to see a friend, went there, hung out with him. We did like hang out for the whole day pretty much. And then we ended up like hooking up. But after that it was, and I knew that I wasn't like trying to get into anything serious or anything like that, but yeah.