Caroline Adams Miller
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And then she wrote this bestseller, Grit, bestseller all over the world, really. What I wanted to write about was the quality, how to get it, not just that it's great and that it's important, but how to get it. And so for me, intentionality is intrinsic motivation. And it's the decision to actually do whatever it takes to accomplish that goal, because it is something that you want to accomplish.
And then she wrote this bestseller, Grit, bestseller all over the world, really. What I wanted to write about was the quality, how to get it, not just that it's great and that it's important, but how to get it. And so for me, intentionality is intrinsic motivation. And it's the decision to actually do whatever it takes to accomplish that goal, because it is something that you want to accomplish.
It's something that's so important to you. And this is the passion. that you will persist through dark nights of the soul. And what's baked into grit and big goals is that will happen. That will happen. The Stoics talked about premeditatio malorum, premeditate the evils that are coming in the path before you, because it's going to be hard to do hard things. So they knew it thousands of years ago.
It's something that's so important to you. And this is the passion. that you will persist through dark nights of the soul. And what's baked into grit and big goals is that will happen. That will happen. The Stoics talked about premeditatio malorum, premeditate the evils that are coming in the path before you, because it's going to be hard to do hard things. So they knew it thousands of years ago.
It's something that's so important to you. And this is the passion. that you will persist through dark nights of the soul. And what's baked into grit and big goals is that will happen. That will happen. The Stoics talked about premeditatio malorum, premeditate the evils that are coming in the path before you, because it's going to be hard to do hard things. So they knew it thousands of years ago.
So you have to have this passion along with this realistic optimism. I'm going to do it. It's hard. I'm going to have to unleash passion. And that passion is what's going to keep me going. Even when I'm alone, even when I'm doing hard things and nobody's doing flashcards or giving me a trophy or whatever. And so that to me is what intentionality is all about.
So you have to have this passion along with this realistic optimism. I'm going to do it. It's hard. I'm going to have to unleash passion. And that passion is what's going to keep me going. Even when I'm alone, even when I'm doing hard things and nobody's doing flashcards or giving me a trophy or whatever. And so that to me is what intentionality is all about.
So you have to have this passion along with this realistic optimism. I'm going to do it. It's hard. I'm going to have to unleash passion. And that passion is what's going to keep me going. Even when I'm alone, even when I'm doing hard things and nobody's doing flashcards or giving me a trophy or whatever. And so that to me is what intentionality is all about.
And the last thing I'll say about my book, getting grit, as I wrote it about how to cultivate it, how do you break this down? What are the qualities? It's humility. It's persistence. It's the ability to set goals correctly. It's about self-regulation. But I realized and wrote about a definition that I felt was a little bit different from Angela's because I believe
And the last thing I'll say about my book, getting grit, as I wrote it about how to cultivate it, how do you break this down? What are the qualities? It's humility. It's persistence. It's the ability to set goals correctly. It's about self-regulation. But I realized and wrote about a definition that I felt was a little bit different from Angela's because I believe
And the last thing I'll say about my book, getting grit, as I wrote it about how to cultivate it, how do you break this down? What are the qualities? It's humility. It's persistence. It's the ability to set goals correctly. It's about self-regulation. But I realized and wrote about a definition that I felt was a little bit different from Angela's because I believe
That grit is good grit when the display of that good grit, the pursuit of hard things that are important to you and you do it with dignity and self-respect and you do it without a cheerleading squad and you do it because it's important to you and you do it for all the right reasons.
That grit is good grit when the display of that good grit, the pursuit of hard things that are important to you and you do it with dignity and self-respect and you do it without a cheerleading squad and you do it because it's important to you and you do it for all the right reasons.
That grit is good grit when the display of that good grit, the pursuit of hard things that are important to you and you do it with dignity and self-respect and you do it without a cheerleading squad and you do it because it's important to you and you do it for all the right reasons.
I call that authentic grit because I believe good grit awes and inspires other people to ask themselves, what if I acted like that? What could I do? What would my life be like? What if I went out of my comfort zone and did hard things too? And so for me, good grit isn't just about a person doing hard things. It's about the quality of uplifting the people who see you, the people who are awestruck
I call that authentic grit because I believe good grit awes and inspires other people to ask themselves, what if I acted like that? What could I do? What would my life be like? What if I went out of my comfort zone and did hard things too? And so for me, good grit isn't just about a person doing hard things. It's about the quality of uplifting the people who see you, the people who are awestruck
I call that authentic grit because I believe good grit awes and inspires other people to ask themselves, what if I acted like that? What could I do? What would my life be like? What if I went out of my comfort zone and did hard things too? And so for me, good grit isn't just about a person doing hard things. It's about the quality of uplifting the people who see you, the people who are awestruck
by seeing what you do and how you do it. And there's so many examples of that. So for me, grit is all about not just doing hard things, but it's how you do those hard things. And what is the impact? Because this is systems theory. I believe it has to impact other people in order for it to make a big difference. During COVID, I came up with a term that
by seeing what you do and how you do it. And there's so many examples of that. So for me, grit is all about not just doing hard things, but it's how you do those hard things. And what is the impact? Because this is systems theory. I believe it has to impact other people in order for it to make a big difference. During COVID, I came up with a term that
by seeing what you do and how you do it. And there's so many examples of that. So for me, grit is all about not just doing hard things, but it's how you do those hard things. And what is the impact? Because this is systems theory. I believe it has to impact other people in order for it to make a big difference. During COVID, I came up with a term that