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Caroline Goyder

๐Ÿ‘ค Speaker
386 total appearances

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Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
Confidence Classic: Speak with Gravitas and Command the Room with Caroline Goyder

This question is coming up so much.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
Confidence Classic: Speak with Gravitas and Command the Room with Caroline Goyder

In fact, I did a session today for a big group.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
Confidence Classic: Speak with Gravitas and Command the Room with Caroline Goyder

And it came up.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
Confidence Classic: Speak with Gravitas and Command the Room with Caroline Goyder

The first rule I learned from business schools really early on in lockdown, which is stand up.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
Confidence Classic: Speak with Gravitas and Command the Room with Caroline Goyder

And, you know, I work a lot with a laptop stand or a standing desk, because if I have, you know, you'll know this, if you have a big audience on Zoom or Teams, whatever platform.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
Confidence Classic: Speak with Gravitas and Command the Room with Caroline Goyder

If you're sitting at the desk, you sit to write emails.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
Confidence Classic: Speak with Gravitas and Command the Room with Caroline Goyder

It doesn't have the same feeling of excitement that it would if you walked out on the conference stage.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
Confidence Classic: Speak with Gravitas and Command the Room with Caroline Goyder

And standing up can start to replicate that.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
Confidence Classic: Speak with Gravitas and Command the Room with Caroline Goyder

And it makes it feel more like a performance.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
Confidence Classic: Speak with Gravitas and Command the Room with Caroline Goyder

And I think that's

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
Confidence Classic: Speak with Gravitas and Command the Room with Caroline Goyder

That's the game changer note for most people is stand and gesture because that brings your voice into it.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
Confidence Classic: Speak with Gravitas and Command the Room with Caroline Goyder

So there are some good rules, which are like broadcast rules, which are, you know, don't wave your arms around as if you're on, you know, a huge Royal Albert Hall stage.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
Confidence Classic: Speak with Gravitas and Command the Room with Caroline Goyder

But the gestures that you would naturally do if you were chatting to a friend or a group of friends are probably going to work on screen.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
Confidence Classic: Speak with Gravitas and Command the Room with Caroline Goyder

The reason that's true is that because of the hands being connected to the shoulders and the shoulders being connected to the ribs...

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
Confidence Classic: Speak with Gravitas and Command the Room with Caroline Goyder

Everything I do with my hands affects my breathing and my voice is breath.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
Confidence Classic: Speak with Gravitas and Command the Room with Caroline Goyder

So gesture affects my voice.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
Confidence Classic: Speak with Gravitas and Command the Room with Caroline Goyder

And the more I use my hands, the more engaged my voice is, the more resonance it has.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
Confidence Classic: Speak with Gravitas and Command the Room with Caroline Goyder

And usually the more power it does.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
Confidence Classic: Speak with Gravitas and Command the Room with Caroline Goyder

If I'm sitting at a desk and I've got my hands clamped and my ribs tight and I'm not moving, my voice is going to be much flatter.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
Confidence Classic: Speak with Gravitas and Command the Room with Caroline Goyder

So it's just a really simple way to liven up delivery.