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Caroline Goyder

๐Ÿ‘ค Speaker
386 total appearances

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Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
Confidence Classic: Speak with Gravitas and Command the Room with Caroline Goyder

So feet grounded, straight spine, power in the belly.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
Confidence Classic: Speak with Gravitas and Command the Room with Caroline Goyder

Then find something at the back of the room that you want to send a thought to and think of pulling your voice from that point.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
Confidence Classic: Speak with Gravitas and Command the Room with Caroline Goyder

So rather than pushing your voice out at something, you stand up straight and you pull in.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
Confidence Classic: Speak with Gravitas and Command the Room with Caroline Goyder

Because then the voice naturally connects and it's easy.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
Confidence Classic: Speak with Gravitas and Command the Room with Caroline Goyder

Whereas if I think, if I stand to the side, if I think, oh, I've really got to reach that point.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
Confidence Classic: Speak with Gravitas and Command the Room with Caroline Goyder

If I start pushing in my throat and pushing my head forward, that's straining the voice.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
Confidence Classic: Speak with Gravitas and Command the Room with Caroline Goyder

It's going to make it tired.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
Confidence Classic: Speak with Gravitas and Command the Room with Caroline Goyder

So just get strong, pull in, and you'll naturally have power.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
Confidence Classic: Speak with Gravitas and Command the Room with Caroline Goyder

And we do it when we sing.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
Confidence Classic: Speak with Gravitas and Command the Room with Caroline Goyder

They're fine until a certain point, aren't they?

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
Confidence Classic: Speak with Gravitas and Command the Room with Caroline Goyder

And then they don't like it anymore.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
Confidence Classic: Speak with Gravitas and Command the Room with Caroline Goyder

Mommy, please don't dance.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
Confidence Classic: Speak with Gravitas and Command the Room with Caroline Goyder

Yeah, gravitas is the book I wrote in 2014.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
Confidence Classic: Speak with Gravitas and Command the Room with Caroline Goyder

And it's something that

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
Confidence Classic: Speak with Gravitas and Command the Room with Caroline Goyder

I think it's kind of my word.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
Confidence Classic: Speak with Gravitas and Command the Room with Caroline Goyder

And it's a weird one that it's become my word.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
Confidence Classic: Speak with Gravitas and Command the Room with Caroline Goyder

I think I have lawyer parents and I wonder if there's something to do with that.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
Confidence Classic: Speak with Gravitas and Command the Room with Caroline Goyder

Gravitas, I was asked to teach at a big corporate in London.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
Confidence Classic: Speak with Gravitas and Command the Room with Caroline Goyder

And they said to me, people keep saying, oh, she has no gravitas, he has no gravitas.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
Confidence Classic: Speak with Gravitas and Command the Room with Caroline Goyder

And we don't know what to do with that.