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Caroline Goyder

๐Ÿ‘ค Speaker
386 total appearances

Appearances Over Time

Podcast Appearances

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
Confidence Classic: Speak with Gravitas and Command the Room with Caroline Goyder

They spend half an hour before the show goes up just sitting quietly.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
Confidence Classic: Speak with Gravitas and Command the Room with Caroline Goyder

And what they're doing is exactly that, Heather.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
Confidence Classic: Speak with Gravitas and Command the Room with Caroline Goyder

They're tuning into mind, breath and body.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
Confidence Classic: Speak with Gravitas and Command the Room with Caroline Goyder

They're getting present.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
Confidence Classic: Speak with Gravitas and Command the Room with Caroline Goyder

And what that means is when you hit the adrenaline of the audience, your system meets it and it spikes performance.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
Confidence Classic: Speak with Gravitas and Command the Room with Caroline Goyder

If you're not centered, if you've been checking TikTok or, you know, watching TV or checking your messages, looking at Slack or something, you hit the adrenaline and your system panics.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
Confidence Classic: Speak with Gravitas and Command the Room with Caroline Goyder

It's so interesting, isn't it?

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
Confidence Classic: Speak with Gravitas and Command the Room with Caroline Goyder

Because I know my editor, my video editor will say, if he's editing YouTube videos, you've got to cut out all the pauses.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
Confidence Classic: Speak with Gravitas and Command the Room with Caroline Goyder

People hate pauses on social media.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
Confidence Classic: Speak with Gravitas and Command the Room with Caroline Goyder

That's not the same in speaking because a pause, it's like good poetry.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
Confidence Classic: Speak with Gravitas and Command the Room with Caroline Goyder

You know, you look at a poem or a song lyric, a film script, there's loads of white space.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
Confidence Classic: Speak with Gravitas and Command the Room with Caroline Goyder

And what happens in the white space?

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
Confidence Classic: Speak with Gravitas and Command the Room with Caroline Goyder

We process stuff because not everything is speaking.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
Confidence Classic: Speak with Gravitas and Command the Room with Caroline Goyder

If you lay out speech like a poem or a song lyric, then you create a space for the audience to connect with it.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
Confidence Classic: Speak with Gravitas and Command the Room with Caroline Goyder

Whereas if I just talk at you and I don't stop and I keep going because I'm nervous and I'm just kind of on a roll because I can't really, then you zone out because there's no white space.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
Confidence Classic: Speak with Gravitas and Command the Room with Caroline Goyder

No one can think that fast to hear you.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
Confidence Classic: Speak with Gravitas and Command the Room with Caroline Goyder

No.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
Confidence Classic: Speak with Gravitas and Command the Room with Caroline Goyder

And yet people do because we're all so speedy.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
Confidence Classic: Speak with Gravitas and Command the Room with Caroline Goyder

Our lives now are so speedy.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
Confidence Classic: Speak with Gravitas and Command the Room with Caroline Goyder

And I think there is a movement to all this productivity movement and the emphasis on time and managing time, I think, is coming as a response to the overwhelm.