Carolyn Arellano
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Yes, because I was around that, I suppose I thought, you know, I'm going to end up in jail one day. It's not like that. Right. I never like really thought too far ahead. I was just always like surviving. So for me, yeah, I was regular. So. My daughter's father, who I don't know, is my second daughter's father yet because he just gets arrested, goes to jail.
I'm in the club dancing and dealing to, you know, some of the girls, some of the guys. And I'm like, OK, you know, I want to get out of this. But like. How do I how do I make this this this change? So during that during that short time frame, the manager that I was talking about that had that crush on me, he knows what I'm doing. Right. So that's another thing.
I'm in the club dancing and dealing to, you know, some of the girls, some of the guys. And I'm like, OK, you know, I want to get out of this. But like. How do I how do I make this this this change? So during that during that short time frame, the manager that I was talking about that had that crush on me, he knows what I'm doing. Right. So that's another thing.
I'm in the club dancing and dealing to, you know, some of the girls, some of the guys. And I'm like, OK, you know, I want to get out of this. But like. How do I how do I make this this this change? So during that during that short time frame, the manager that I was talking about that had that crush on me, he knows what I'm doing. Right. So that's another thing.
So now I'm kind of like I have free room of this bar. I barely got to get on stage. I barely have to do anything and I can deal to whoever I want that's coming in. Um, so he, you know, very soon after wants like a cut in it, or he wants to just do it on his own. So me being me being dumb, um, and young, I figured, okay, well, I don't want to be here anymore.
So now I'm kind of like I have free room of this bar. I barely got to get on stage. I barely have to do anything and I can deal to whoever I want that's coming in. Um, so he, you know, very soon after wants like a cut in it, or he wants to just do it on his own. So me being me being dumb, um, and young, I figured, okay, well, I don't want to be here anymore.
So now I'm kind of like I have free room of this bar. I barely got to get on stage. I barely have to do anything and I can deal to whoever I want that's coming in. Um, so he, you know, very soon after wants like a cut in it, or he wants to just do it on his own. So me being me being dumb, um, and young, I figured, okay, well, I don't want to be here anymore.
So you can, you can do what you want in here. You can absolutely do what you want in here. Cause I have plenty of like people that I can meet that, you know, or doctors, lawyers, uh, All these like decent people. I don't have to be in the club. So I kind of show him the ropes a little bit and get him going because he had no idea. Right. He grew up in like the suburbs. He's like, what do you do?
So you can, you can do what you want in here. You can absolutely do what you want in here. Cause I have plenty of like people that I can meet that, you know, or doctors, lawyers, uh, All these like decent people. I don't have to be in the club. So I kind of show him the ropes a little bit and get him going because he had no idea. Right. He grew up in like the suburbs. He's like, what do you do?
So you can, you can do what you want in here. You can absolutely do what you want in here. Cause I have plenty of like people that I can meet that, you know, or doctors, lawyers, uh, All these like decent people. I don't have to be in the club. So I kind of show him the ropes a little bit and get him going because he had no idea. Right. He grew up in like the suburbs. He's like, what do you do?
How do you do this? Like, so I kind of showed him what to do and left the club. I ended up, you know, like no longer being friends with this guy because I found out that I was pregnant a few weeks later, ended up taking a pregnancy test. And I'm like, oh, my God. I'm like, are you kidding me? I'm like, this cannot be happening right now. This guy's in jail. I only met him like three months ago.
How do you do this? Like, so I kind of showed him what to do and left the club. I ended up, you know, like no longer being friends with this guy because I found out that I was pregnant a few weeks later, ended up taking a pregnancy test. And I'm like, oh, my God. I'm like, are you kidding me? I'm like, this cannot be happening right now. This guy's in jail. I only met him like three months ago.
How do you do this? Like, so I kind of showed him what to do and left the club. I ended up, you know, like no longer being friends with this guy because I found out that I was pregnant a few weeks later, ended up taking a pregnancy test. And I'm like, oh, my God. I'm like, are you kidding me? I'm like, this cannot be happening right now. This guy's in jail. I only met him like three months ago.
You know, I just got off the club. I'm like, what is going on?
You know, I just got off the club. I'm like, what is going on?
You know, I just got off the club. I'm like, what is going on?
So they only had given him under a year. Yeah. It was like he... It was nothing. It was like a slap on the wrist. And it was because he was on a big probation already. Right. So they had only given him like 10 months. So he was only going to be in the county jail. So during this time, I'm making this money.
So they only had given him under a year. Yeah. It was like he... It was nothing. It was like a slap on the wrist. And it was because he was on a big probation already. Right. So they had only given him like 10 months. So he was only going to be in the county jail. So during this time, I'm making this money.
So they only had given him under a year. Yeah. It was like he... It was nothing. It was like a slap on the wrist. And it was because he was on a big probation already. Right. So they had only given him like 10 months. So he was only going to be in the county jail. So during this time, I'm making this money.
I'm also sending him money, of course, because this is, you know, it's kind of like his business. Although... It wasn't at that point, but I figured I'd have to. So I'm sending him money. I'm helping him pay his attorney. You know, I'm giving his mom a couple of dollars, but really like I'm building something for myself. Right.