Carolyn Arellano
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So I also met him at the club this time. This is post prison. This is like I'm focused. I met him at a club. It was just on chance. He ended up walking in. I wasn't even supposed to be working that night. He sat down to have a drink. This was a juice bar that I was working at, the first one I ever worked at. It was very strange. And he's like, let me get a shot of tequila.
So I also met him at the club this time. This is post prison. This is like I'm focused. I met him at a club. It was just on chance. He ended up walking in. I wasn't even supposed to be working that night. He sat down to have a drink. This was a juice bar that I was working at, the first one I ever worked at. It was very strange. And he's like, let me get a shot of tequila.
So I also met him at the club this time. This is post prison. This is like I'm focused. I met him at a club. It was just on chance. He ended up walking in. I wasn't even supposed to be working that night. He sat down to have a drink. This was a juice bar that I was working at, the first one I ever worked at. It was very strange. And he's like, let me get a shot of tequila.
And I'm like, well, we don't serve alcohol here. He's like, what do you mean you don't serve alcohol? This is a strip club. And I'm like, well, this is a different strip club. I can get you a coffee or a tea or a juice. And he's like, well, that a-hole just took my 20 bucks at the front. He didn't tell me there was no alcohol.
And I'm like, well, we don't serve alcohol here. He's like, what do you mean you don't serve alcohol? This is a strip club. And I'm like, well, this is a different strip club. I can get you a coffee or a tea or a juice. And he's like, well, that a-hole just took my 20 bucks at the front. He didn't tell me there was no alcohol.
And I'm like, well, we don't serve alcohol here. He's like, what do you mean you don't serve alcohol? This is a strip club. And I'm like, well, this is a different strip club. I can get you a coffee or a tea or a juice. And he's like, well, that a-hole just took my 20 bucks at the front. He didn't tell me there was no alcohol.
So it was completely by chance that he walked in there thinking he was going to grab, you know, a shot of tequila. I wasn't supposed to be working there. We ended up talking. He's like, what are you doing here? I'm like, just trying to make some extra cash and I'm going to school. I have a daytime job, whatever. He came to see me like three nights in a row on the third night.
So it was completely by chance that he walked in there thinking he was going to grab, you know, a shot of tequila. I wasn't supposed to be working there. We ended up talking. He's like, what are you doing here? I'm like, just trying to make some extra cash and I'm going to school. I have a daytime job, whatever. He came to see me like three nights in a row on the third night.
So it was completely by chance that he walked in there thinking he was going to grab, you know, a shot of tequila. I wasn't supposed to be working there. We ended up talking. He's like, what are you doing here? I'm like, just trying to make some extra cash and I'm going to school. I have a daytime job, whatever. He came to see me like three nights in a row on the third night.
He was like, listen, it was so nice getting to know you, but I'm never coming in this place again. So I ended up taking his number. We started talking and he was the one that was like, look, You know, we started dating. He's like, you shouldn't be in this place. Like, just leave this place. This place is gross or whatever. And I'm like, yeah, I know, but I don't know what I'm doing.
He was like, listen, it was so nice getting to know you, but I'm never coming in this place again. So I ended up taking his number. We started talking and he was the one that was like, look, You know, we started dating. He's like, you shouldn't be in this place. Like, just leave this place. This place is gross or whatever. And I'm like, yeah, I know, but I don't know what I'm doing.
He was like, listen, it was so nice getting to know you, but I'm never coming in this place again. So I ended up taking his number. We started talking and he was the one that was like, look, You know, we started dating. He's like, you shouldn't be in this place. Like, just leave this place. This place is gross or whatever. And I'm like, yeah, I know, but I don't know what I'm doing.
I'm still going to college. He's like, why don't you start your own business? Like, just do it already. And I was like, because I don't like I really don't know what I want to do or how to do it. So at that point, he was like, look, come work for me because he's a business owner. He's like, come work for me. Answer my phones, you know, doing customer service and just pick something that you like.
I'm still going to college. He's like, why don't you start your own business? Like, just do it already. And I was like, because I don't like I really don't know what I want to do or how to do it. So at that point, he was like, look, come work for me because he's a business owner. He's like, come work for me. Answer my phones, you know, doing customer service and just pick something that you like.
I'm still going to college. He's like, why don't you start your own business? Like, just do it already. And I was like, because I don't like I really don't know what I want to do or how to do it. So at that point, he was like, look, come work for me because he's a business owner. He's like, come work for me. Answer my phones, you know, doing customer service and just pick something that you like.
So that's when I had tried the party planning. They don't work out. The cleaning business started. It took off. I obviously stopped working for him. First house that I cleaned, I was handed two hundred and fifty bucks. It was me and my sister. We cleaned this lady's house for about three hours together. So six hours total. I got handed almost $300. And I'll never forget walking out of that house.
So that's when I had tried the party planning. They don't work out. The cleaning business started. It took off. I obviously stopped working for him. First house that I cleaned, I was handed two hundred and fifty bucks. It was me and my sister. We cleaned this lady's house for about three hours together. So six hours total. I got handed almost $300. And I'll never forget walking out of that house.
So that's when I had tried the party planning. They don't work out. The cleaning business started. It took off. I obviously stopped working for him. First house that I cleaned, I was handed two hundred and fifty bucks. It was me and my sister. We cleaned this lady's house for about three hours together. So six hours total. I got handed almost $300. And I'll never forget walking out of that house.
I was like, why haven't I been cleaning homes this whole time? What the fuck was I doing? I'm like, what was I doing? And then we just kept like working on it, working on it. The first year, her and I cleaning together, 40 to 70, 80 hours a week. God knows how much. We were up and down New Jersey, New York. I'd clean anything. You had roaches. I didn't care. You had an apartment.
I was like, why haven't I been cleaning homes this whole time? What the fuck was I doing? I'm like, what was I doing? And then we just kept like working on it, working on it. The first year, her and I cleaning together, 40 to 70, 80 hours a week. God knows how much. We were up and down New Jersey, New York. I'd clean anything. You had roaches. I didn't care. You had an apartment.