Casey

Forty four. So he's decided that he's too old for kids and he's just totally disinterested in that and not willing to entertain the conversation. OK, so.

Forty four. So he's decided that he's too old for kids and he's just totally disinterested in that and not willing to entertain the conversation. OK, so.

Forty four. So he's decided that he's too old for kids and he's just totally disinterested in that and not willing to entertain the conversation. OK, so.

The sex life is a big thing. It's sex life plus intimacy. Why I say that is because I think if things were better on that front and I was being more fulfilled in that aspect in our relationship, I'd be willing to compromise on some things. My brother and sister-in-law, they just had their first baby and she's turning one soon. So my big thing is I'm not going to get to be a part of

The sex life is a big thing. It's sex life plus intimacy. Why I say that is because I think if things were better on that front and I was being more fulfilled in that aspect in our relationship, I'd be willing to compromise on some things. My brother and sister-in-law, they just had their first baby and she's turning one soon. So my big thing is I'm not going to get to be a part of

The sex life is a big thing. It's sex life plus intimacy. Why I say that is because I think if things were better on that front and I was being more fulfilled in that aspect in our relationship, I'd be willing to compromise on some things. My brother and sister-in-law, they just had their first baby and she's turning one soon. So my big thing is I'm not going to get to be a part of

that life because I live on the opposite side of the country. And then I'm also not going to get to be a mom. So when I'm not feeling fulfilled in that aspect of my life, sexually and in our relationship and different things like that, it feels more like a big thing to me to be missing out on those other things. Whereas if it was great, maybe I'd be more willing to compromise.

that life because I live on the opposite side of the country. And then I'm also not going to get to be a mom. So when I'm not feeling fulfilled in that aspect of my life, sexually and in our relationship and different things like that, it feels more like a big thing to me to be missing out on those other things. Whereas if it was great, maybe I'd be more willing to compromise.

that life because I live on the opposite side of the country. And then I'm also not going to get to be a mom. So when I'm not feeling fulfilled in that aspect of my life, sexually and in our relationship and different things like that, it feels more like a big thing to me to be missing out on those other things. Whereas if it was great, maybe I'd be more willing to compromise.

I mean, that makes sense.

I mean, that makes sense.

I mean, that makes sense.

Well, I mean, the big thing is intimacy. Basically, we don't ever really kiss or cuddle or like anything like that. Sex life can be like I was talking about, pretty vanilla. It's not a lot of like spontaneity. Really, only the times sex happens for us is like two o'clock in the morning when he's drunk and I'm not into it. Because it's not really romantic to me.

Well, I mean, the big thing is intimacy. Basically, we don't ever really kiss or cuddle or like anything like that. Sex life can be like I was talking about, pretty vanilla. It's not a lot of like spontaneity. Really, only the times sex happens for us is like two o'clock in the morning when he's drunk and I'm not into it. Because it's not really romantic to me.

Well, I mean, the big thing is intimacy. Basically, we don't ever really kiss or cuddle or like anything like that. Sex life can be like I was talking about, pretty vanilla. It's not a lot of like spontaneity. Really, only the times sex happens for us is like two o'clock in the morning when he's drunk and I'm not into it. Because it's not really romantic to me.

He definitely says in conversation, like when we're having this normal conversation, it's something that he can do. He doesn't know why he doesn't give it to me. And it's a simple and easy thing to ask for.

He definitely says in conversation, like when we're having this normal conversation, it's something that he can do. He doesn't know why he doesn't give it to me. And it's a simple and easy thing to ask for.

He definitely says in conversation, like when we're having this normal conversation, it's something that he can do. He doesn't know why he doesn't give it to me. And it's a simple and easy thing to ask for.

But as I mentioned earlier, we did get into a big blow up fight where it's happened maybe like four or five times in our five year relationship where he's gotten like super verbally aggressive with me. And he was totally like super awful in that argument and said something along the lines of that, because I'm young and inexperienced. I have nothing to reference it to.

But as I mentioned earlier, we did get into a big blow up fight where it's happened maybe like four or five times in our five year relationship where he's gotten like super verbally aggressive with me. And he was totally like super awful in that argument and said something along the lines of that, because I'm young and inexperienced. I have nothing to reference it to.