Casey

Yeah, I definitely... Definitely do things like that. But like, it's just more of like a response of like flame emojis. And then that's where it ends. So I've done other things, you know, like put on lingerie and come out into the living room or like come out in the shower towel in the living room.

And it's usually initiated then, but I'm not the most 100% like confident person in myself sexually. It doesn't help to have a partner that's really not that into sex all the time to build that confidence. He's really giving you with nothing. I try as best as I can.

And it's usually initiated then, but I'm not the most 100% like confident person in myself sexually. It doesn't help to have a partner that's really not that into sex all the time to build that confidence. He's really giving you with nothing. I try as best as I can.

And it's usually initiated then, but I'm not the most 100% like confident person in myself sexually. It doesn't help to have a partner that's really not that into sex all the time to build that confidence. He's really giving you with nothing. I try as best as I can.

He has gone to therapy specifically to get over being cheated on. And then he said he went one day and just no longer had any upset feelings. So he never went back. He did agree to do couples therapy with me, which entailed me calling around to a bunch of couples therapists, never being able to book an appointment and not getting any help in booking one. And then we're where we are now.

He has gone to therapy specifically to get over being cheated on. And then he said he went one day and just no longer had any upset feelings. So he never went back. He did agree to do couples therapy with me, which entailed me calling around to a bunch of couples therapists, never being able to book an appointment and not getting any help in booking one. And then we're where we are now.

He has gone to therapy specifically to get over being cheated on. And then he said he went one day and just no longer had any upset feelings. So he never went back. He did agree to do couples therapy with me, which entailed me calling around to a bunch of couples therapists, never being able to book an appointment and not getting any help in booking one. And then we're where we are now.

So I ended things and then we're still living together. And I decided to have a conversation with him. Like, Hey, basically we're still going to be living together and we're hanging out. Like we're still friends and doing all these things together. Like we're still friends, which is weird because a week ago we were boyfriend and girlfriend. So it's hard.

So I ended things and then we're still living together. And I decided to have a conversation with him. Like, Hey, basically we're still going to be living together and we're hanging out. Like we're still friends and doing all these things together. Like we're still friends, which is weird because a week ago we were boyfriend and girlfriend. So it's hard.

So I ended things and then we're still living together. And I decided to have a conversation with him. Like, Hey, basically we're still going to be living together and we're hanging out. Like we're still friends and doing all these things together. Like we're still friends, which is weird because a week ago we were boyfriend and girlfriend. So it's hard.

Like when you're sitting on the couch with somebody watching TV or doing all these things together or to what it's like involuntary sometimes to like put your hand on their leg or like rub their shoulder or do things like that. So I kind of just said like, like what's your boundaries as far as while I'm still living here.

Like when you're sitting on the couch with somebody watching TV or doing all these things together or to what it's like involuntary sometimes to like put your hand on their leg or like rub their shoulder or do things like that. So I kind of just said like, like what's your boundaries as far as while I'm still living here.

Like when you're sitting on the couch with somebody watching TV or doing all these things together or to what it's like involuntary sometimes to like put your hand on their leg or like rub their shoulder or do things like that. So I kind of just said like, like what's your boundaries as far as while I'm still living here.

And he said like, I always want you to hug me and kiss me, touch me, whatever, as long as you're here. And I did say like, okay, but my mind's not going to change as far as like wanting kids in the future. And that's a non-negotiable for you. And he said, yeah. So that's kind of where we left it. And like he said, he's okay with us being intimate until I go.

And he said like, I always want you to hug me and kiss me, touch me, whatever, as long as you're here. And I did say like, okay, but my mind's not going to change as far as like wanting kids in the future. And that's a non-negotiable for you. And he said, yeah. So that's kind of where we left it. And like he said, he's okay with us being intimate until I go.

And he said like, I always want you to hug me and kiss me, touch me, whatever, as long as you're here. And I did say like, okay, but my mind's not going to change as far as like wanting kids in the future. And that's a non-negotiable for you. And he said, yeah. So that's kind of where we left it. And like he said, he's okay with us being intimate until I go.

I just don't, I don't know if he fully understands. There's no chance of ever getting back together. And I don't know if I'm making a bad decision on his or being like rude or inconsiderate to him by still doing those things while knowing it's not going to go forward.

I just don't, I don't know if he fully understands. There's no chance of ever getting back together. And I don't know if I'm making a bad decision on his or being like rude or inconsiderate to him by still doing those things while knowing it's not going to go forward.

I just don't, I don't know if he fully understands. There's no chance of ever getting back together. And I don't know if I'm making a bad decision on his or being like rude or inconsiderate to him by still doing those things while knowing it's not going to go forward.

That's, I think it's the kids thing. It's like a super new feeling for me. I was always kind of on the page of love. I don't see myself being a mom ever. And then my brother and sister-in-law had a kid and, we had a FaceTime call over Christmas and I was looking at her face on FaceTime, the baby. And I was like, well, I think she'll keep it.