Cassie

I would have my expectations set too high.

are acting like you're in a relationship and it sounds like you're not looking outside of this connection you have with this guy which is i think a mistake yeah i think my fear is like being in a small town and knowing that my ex is so like you can't be with anybody else you can't talk to anybody else it's like okay well i'm not gonna go out and

try to meet people because he's just going to come for me no matter what I do.

So this is like, he has no idea who this person is.

Well, like come for me, like personally, like verbally come for me over text or call or whatever.

And then also he can take that and like use it in our divorce as like infidelity to try to get me.

I'm just bothered that I give a crap at all.

When about like hurting my ex-husband or him knowing that I'm seeing somebody else when he's being posted in these groups, like 24 seven.

Yeah, but it's annoying.

That's the problem is that I care too much about what is this person going to think?

What is that person going to think?

Like nobody cares.

That's why I'm trying not to care, but I do.

One, him coming for me and like,

It's not that I don't want to go.

I just know that I would never go if it weren't for him.

And I honestly probably would have never thought about it unless he brought it up, which he did.

So I was like, huh.

A hundred percent.

Probably not.