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And she was basically going off on me saying like, the way you treat your mom is disgusting. This is before I even said anything to my mom or anything.

Dude, she just said all this nasty stuff to me and everything. And then so I was I literally just woke up, got that. So then I reached out to my mom. I sent her. I said, your mom's fucking crazy. And for two, I don't appreciate you. I called her out on it. And I said, I do not appreciate like I let you into one of the most intimate things in my life.

Dude, she just said all this nasty stuff to me and everything. And then so I was I literally just woke up, got that. So then I reached out to my mom. I sent her. I said, your mom's fucking crazy. And for two, I don't appreciate you. I called her out on it. And I said, I do not appreciate like I let you into one of the most intimate things in my life.

Dude, she just said all this nasty stuff to me and everything. And then so I was I literally just woke up, got that. So then I reached out to my mom. I sent her. I said, your mom's fucking crazy. And for two, I don't appreciate you. I called her out on it. And I said, I do not appreciate like I let you into one of the most intimate things in my life.

And, you know, my boundaries and you did it anyways. And she said, well, I didn't think it was that big of a deal because other people were having drinks, too. And I said, they're not the alcoholic. They're not the one that traumatized me. And one of the reasons why my child is where she is, because I didn't have any support. And so it just it really blew up. But I think I need that.

And, you know, my boundaries and you did it anyways. And she said, well, I didn't think it was that big of a deal because other people were having drinks, too. And I said, they're not the alcoholic. They're not the one that traumatized me. And one of the reasons why my child is where she is, because I didn't have any support. And so it just it really blew up. But I think I need that.

And, you know, my boundaries and you did it anyways. And she said, well, I didn't think it was that big of a deal because other people were having drinks, too. And I said, they're not the alcoholic. They're not the one that traumatized me. And one of the reasons why my child is where she is, because I didn't have any support. And so it just it really blew up. But I think I need that.

I needed to feel what it was like to be strong and to not rely on her for anything, you know. Yeah. And that's when we didn't talk for like a year. And so now it's just very slow moving and it's for the kids and same thing, like Tyson, not wanting to have any regrets with, with his dad.

I needed to feel what it was like to be strong and to not rely on her for anything, you know. Yeah. And that's when we didn't talk for like a year. And so now it's just very slow moving and it's for the kids and same thing, like Tyson, not wanting to have any regrets with, with his dad.

I needed to feel what it was like to be strong and to not rely on her for anything, you know. Yeah. And that's when we didn't talk for like a year. And so now it's just very slow moving and it's for the kids and same thing, like Tyson, not wanting to have any regrets with, with his dad.

I don't want to have any with my mom either, but she needs to understand what I will tolerate and what I will not anymore. Absolutely. You know, and I stand firm in that, but if, Again, if there's a safe way where the kids can be involved and she can be involved, then I'm cool with that.

I don't want to have any with my mom either, but she needs to understand what I will tolerate and what I will not anymore. Absolutely. You know, and I stand firm in that, but if, Again, if there's a safe way where the kids can be involved and she can be involved, then I'm cool with that.

I don't want to have any with my mom either, but she needs to understand what I will tolerate and what I will not anymore. Absolutely. You know, and I stand firm in that, but if, Again, if there's a safe way where the kids can be involved and she can be involved, then I'm cool with that.

But I kind of hated myself in a sense. I felt like a part of it was my fault at the Carly dinner. Because there were so many times before that where she knew my boundaries and she would do it in front of me and I would never call it out. And so I think she was so used to that pattern. Of course, she's going to think, oh, I can do this and she's not going to call it out because she never has.

But I kind of hated myself in a sense. I felt like a part of it was my fault at the Carly dinner. Because there were so many times before that where she knew my boundaries and she would do it in front of me and I would never call it out. And so I think she was so used to that pattern. Of course, she's going to think, oh, I can do this and she's not going to call it out because she never has.

But I kind of hated myself in a sense. I felt like a part of it was my fault at the Carly dinner. Because there were so many times before that where she knew my boundaries and she would do it in front of me and I would never call it out. And so I think she was so used to that pattern. Of course, she's going to think, oh, I can do this and she's not going to call it out because she never has.

Right. And then when I did, she blew up.

Right. And then when I did, she blew up.

Right. And then when I did, she blew up.

Yes.