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So when you were like going through medical school and all the things like at first you didn't think you were going to end up in urology.

Was there something else you wanted to do?

And then what led you into the pathway of becoming a urologist?

Yes, we're millennials.

A hundred percent.

It was in a magazine.

It was a VHS you had to put in the TV.

Like that's a whole – Well, and then I think it also – but then also too I think it also can –

you know make young men and and women feel like you know they have to act a certain way or do things a certain way or it's not real when some porn that we watch is not real it's acting you know and yeah production you know there's lights and cameras and yeah i mean like yeah i wish i wish people would understand that that it's not real life you know what i mean correct

and why it is meant for adults and how to use it you know well and you know teach them that sex is not taboo i was gonna say and i think yeah i think also you know i mean i feel like with us being on the show for 16 years and stuff and our daughter is getting older like they've seen us you know people have seen us talk to our children about sex at an age appropriate level and

there's been some people that give us some flack, but I feel like there's also been a lot of support.

And I think mine and Ty's thing is, is like, if you started at a young, at a younger age where it's appropriate and you do it in an age appropriate way, you know, then it's always going to be normal to talk about it with your parents, you know?

And I feel like that's important too.

Like we should be talking about sex.

We should be talking about, you know, my 11 year old says like, you know, when, if I ever have the thought about it, I'm coming to you so that way I can be protected.

And that's been years of like,

She was like five and she was obsessed with horses and she was like, played this game where you had to like get two horses together to get a baby.