Cate

yes so i want to give you a little bit of backstory yes please do okay so what happened was is so there's carly but they also have another adopted child okay and so me and that birth mom she lives in michigan she has you know kids she's raising and stuff me and her talk and um we're pretty close because we share that bond um

yes so i want to give you a little bit of backstory yes please do okay so what happened was is so there's carly but they also have another adopted child okay and so me and that birth mom she lives in michigan she has you know kids she's raising and stuff me and her talk and um we're pretty close because we share that bond um

It all started with his, it's hard, it gets confusing, but Carly's, her brother's birth mom reached out to me and said, hey, do you think we're getting a visit this year? The kids are getting older, you know.

It all started with his, it's hard, it gets confusing, but Carly's, her brother's birth mom reached out to me and said, hey, do you think we're getting a visit this year? The kids are getting older, you know.

It all started with his, it's hard, it gets confusing, but Carly's, her brother's birth mom reached out to me and said, hey, do you think we're getting a visit this year? The kids are getting older, you know.

has Teresa said anything to you and I said no but I can start a group text and we can ask her you know so that's what we did and so I we sent a text in this group chat and I just said hey you know uh we would love to try to get together this summer we'd be more than willing to come to North Carolina and even meet up just for dinner one day uh and after I said that to her

has Teresa said anything to you and I said no but I can start a group text and we can ask her you know so that's what we did and so I we sent a text in this group chat and I just said hey you know uh we would love to try to get together this summer we'd be more than willing to come to North Carolina and even meet up just for dinner one day uh and after I said that to her

has Teresa said anything to you and I said no but I can start a group text and we can ask her you know so that's what we did and so I we sent a text in this group chat and I just said hey you know uh we would love to try to get together this summer we'd be more than willing to come to North Carolina and even meet up just for dinner one day uh and after I said that to her

she ghosts me for weeks, which this is typical of Teresa. I can message Carly and say, I can message Teresa and say, hey, how is Carly in school? Is she liking it? Not hear anything for weeks.

she ghosts me for weeks, which this is typical of Teresa. I can message Carly and say, I can message Teresa and say, hey, how is Carly in school? Is she liking it? Not hear anything for weeks.

she ghosts me for weeks, which this is typical of Teresa. I can message Carly and say, I can message Teresa and say, hey, how is Carly in school? Is she liking it? Not hear anything for weeks.

No, that always happens. And then, so days go by, a week goes by, and then the birth mom messages me, hey, has she said anything? No. So I reach out in, hey, just checking in on this, wondering if you and Brandon had the time to talk about it. And she was just like, you know, I know it's disappointing, but no, we're not planning to have a visit this year.

No, that always happens. And then, so days go by, a week goes by, and then the birth mom messages me, hey, has she said anything? No. So I reach out in, hey, just checking in on this, wondering if you and Brandon had the time to talk about it. And she was just like, you know, I know it's disappointing, but no, we're not planning to have a visit this year.

No, that always happens. And then, so days go by, a week goes by, and then the birth mom messages me, hey, has she said anything? No. So I reach out in, hey, just checking in on this, wondering if you and Brandon had the time to talk about it. And she was just like, you know, I know it's disappointing, but no, we're not planning to have a visit this year.

And I said, yeah, I said it's disappointing just because of all the kids. You know, like all the kids, like my kids are getting older. They know Carly. They know that's her sister.

And I said, yeah, I said it's disappointing just because of all the kids. You know, like all the kids, like my kids are getting older. They know Carly. They know that's her sister.

And I said, yeah, I said it's disappointing just because of all the kids. You know, like all the kids, like my kids are getting older. They know Carly. They know that's her sister.

The other birth mom's kids, same thing. They know that their brother is out there and they ask questions. I said, so it sucks that, you know, we can't even meet up just for a dinner, you know? And then Teresa was like, yeah, I understand, you know, whatever. But just know that we love and we care about you guys so much.

The other birth mom's kids, same thing. They know that their brother is out there and they ask questions. I said, so it sucks that, you know, we can't even meet up just for a dinner, you know? And then Teresa was like, yeah, I understand, you know, whatever. But just know that we love and we care about you guys so much.

The other birth mom's kids, same thing. They know that their brother is out there and they ask questions. I said, so it sucks that, you know, we can't even meet up just for a dinner, you know? And then Teresa was like, yeah, I understand, you know, whatever. But just know that we love and we care about you guys so much.