Cate

Yeah. And and then so and she got upset with me because I said, you know, it doesn't feel like love. You know, like people that I truly love and I care about that are involved in my life. I make time for those people. I even if it's just an hour, like I want to spend time with the people that I love and I care about. So she got upset with me that I said that.

Yeah. And and then so and she got upset with me because I said, you know, it doesn't feel like love. You know, like people that I truly love and I care about that are involved in my life. I make time for those people. I even if it's just an hour, like I want to spend time with the people that I love and I care about. So she got upset with me that I said that.

Yeah. And and then so and she got upset with me because I said, you know, it doesn't feel like love. You know, like people that I truly love and I care about that are involved in my life. I make time for those people. I even if it's just an hour, like I want to spend time with the people that I love and I care about. So she got upset with me that I said that.

And then you fast forward a few weeks and it was like Carly's birthday. So, of course, I'm like, hey, I texted recently. Hey, I sent Carly gifts. Please let me know if she gets them. And she answered me on that day. But even a few days after her birthday, I checked in again and it was like she never responds again. You know, weeks go by, then I check in again, no response.

And then you fast forward a few weeks and it was like Carly's birthday. So, of course, I'm like, hey, I texted recently. Hey, I sent Carly gifts. Please let me know if she gets them. And she answered me on that day. But even a few days after her birthday, I checked in again and it was like she never responds again. You know, weeks go by, then I check in again, no response.

And then you fast forward a few weeks and it was like Carly's birthday. So, of course, I'm like, hey, I texted recently. Hey, I sent Carly gifts. Please let me know if she gets them. And she answered me on that day. But even a few days after her birthday, I checked in again and it was like she never responds again. You know, weeks go by, then I check in again, no response.

And I'm like, okay, you know, what's going on?

And I'm like, okay, you know, what's going on?

And I'm like, okay, you know, what's going on?

And then she just came back with, like, you know, the way that you speak about us isn't nice and we're not going to be responding for a while, which kind of blew mine in a little bit because I was like, I've never – I mean, you can watch everything that I've shown – on this journey. And I have never called them out of their names.

And then she just came back with, like, you know, the way that you speak about us isn't nice and we're not going to be responding for a while, which kind of blew mine in a little bit because I was like, I've never – I mean, you can watch everything that I've shown – on this journey. And I have never called them out of their names.

And then she just came back with, like, you know, the way that you speak about us isn't nice and we're not going to be responding for a while, which kind of blew mine in a little bit because I was like, I've never – I mean, you can watch everything that I've shown – on this journey. And I have never called them out of their names.

I have never said that they were shitty-ass parents, weren't doing a good job raising my child. Because I believe all those things. I believe that they do. She's an amazing, well-rounded kid because of them. And so when she said that, my response to her was basically like, I get that. I get that if your feelings are hurt and my feelings are hurt, too.

I have never said that they were shitty-ass parents, weren't doing a good job raising my child. Because I believe all those things. I believe that they do. She's an amazing, well-rounded kid because of them. And so when she said that, my response to her was basically like, I get that. I get that if your feelings are hurt and my feelings are hurt, too.

I have never said that they were shitty-ass parents, weren't doing a good job raising my child. Because I believe all those things. I believe that they do. She's an amazing, well-rounded kid because of them. And so when she said that, my response to her was basically like, I get that. I get that if your feelings are hurt and my feelings are hurt, too.

And when you want to have a conversation about that, I'm here for it. And we should have that conversation. And I told her, I said, but, you know, until then, I'm going to continue to send gifts to Carly like I always have. And I'm going to continue to send updates like I always have. And so that's why when people online said like, oh, my God, Caitlin's just blowing her up all the time.

And when you want to have a conversation about that, I'm here for it. And we should have that conversation. And I told her, I said, but, you know, until then, I'm going to continue to send gifts to Carly like I always have. And I'm going to continue to send updates like I always have. And so that's why when people online said like, oh, my God, Caitlin's just blowing her up all the time.

And when you want to have a conversation about that, I'm here for it. And we should have that conversation. And I told her, I said, but, you know, until then, I'm going to continue to send gifts to Carly like I always have. And I'm going to continue to send updates like I always have. And so that's why when people online said like, oh, my God, Caitlin's just blowing her up all the time.

It was like, no, that all those messages were from after I got that text from her and me telling Teresa like, OK, I get it, but I'm going to send updates. And they were like once directed to Carly.

It was like, no, that all those messages were from after I got that text from her and me telling Teresa like, OK, I get it, but I'm going to send updates. And they were like once directed to Carly.