Cate

I believe that when... And if she thinks that her friend's not going to have this shame and guilt...

come up in other ways oh it does yeah so could you imagine even i couldn't imagine being like a friend and then knowing that like this girl has shame and guilt and she like gets something gets brought up in the future and i'm sitting there and then my my buddy's talking to me like oh my wife i don't know what's wrong with her she's been treating me like shit we've been fighting a lot late and you know i don't know what's going on man like in your head you do

So then it puts you in a position of like, okay, am I a good friend?

By being loyal to the person who told me?

Or am I mad at my friend for putting me in a position as a friend to have to hold on to this information?

Yeah, tell her that.

Next time you do something like that, I don't want to hear about it.

Unless you're going to tell them.

Yeah, unless you're going to tell them.

You're putting me in a stupid-ass position.

I agree.

I'm pissed, actually.

Because you're ruining the whole friends group, dude.

But she's not a colleague, which is really even more interesting.

I wonder if they work together.

Obviously...

Like, they must work together.

Because she said colleague.

Yeah, it's a colleague.

Oh, hell no.