Cate

Are you not good with confrontation?

Do you want me to step in?

yeah not so much a solution yeah fixer like not a problem fixer but more just like support lean into me I'll listen but I do think there's a point in time where if depending on how your partner is like like I said if the partner's not good with confrontation if they're not good with

Yeah, I think it is, because who's going to advocate for you?

I'm going to literally step back as much as I can, but I'm also not going to— But once those claws come out, yeah.

I'm not going to watch you be disrespected.

I'm not going to watch you be gaslit.

I'm not going to watch you be— Or cry and be upset.

Yeah, I'm not going to watch you be constantly treated like shit.

Like, you know?

what i mean no and i think that's important too because it's like listen what do you want me to do when i feel like i need to do something and then let the person say please don't call my dad you know please don't talk to my mom you know what i mean give them the freedom to be like i i appreciate you wanting to defend me but i don't need that right now i don't want that right now because it'll make things worse or whatever then because i didn't ask you i just called it

No, but honestly – but here's the thing, though, is that me, I know your intentions are pure.

Yeah, right.

So I don't really – I don't really give a fuck if you called all my family members that are fucking with me and say, you know, don't fucking whatever because there's been multiple times, I think, with your family that I've had to be like –

I almost texted him today.

There's multiple times where I – like I said, I'm going to let you – because we made an agreement.

You handle your family.

Right.

I'll handle my family.

And I think that's been a really good – It is.