Catt Sadler

And it's odd that my marriages ended in like, you know, nothing absolutely catastrophic happened. It was just like, it was like letting go in love and like, we can be friends. There's still respect there. This has run its course. We really did try, but it just wasn't going to work out. And then I had some, some relationships after that in my forties that were the worst relationships of my life.

And so I, We'd be here all day if I told you the psychology of all that and all the reasons why I think that happened. But it was my worst relationship. And by worst, I mean just unhealthy, really, really unhealthy. That... profoundly changed the way that I regard love and healthy love and romantic adult love and how it's supposed to be.

And so I, We'd be here all day if I told you the psychology of all that and all the reasons why I think that happened. But it was my worst relationship. And by worst, I mean just unhealthy, really, really unhealthy. That... profoundly changed the way that I regard love and healthy love and romantic adult love and how it's supposed to be.

And so I, We'd be here all day if I told you the psychology of all that and all the reasons why I think that happened. But it was my worst relationship. And by worst, I mean just unhealthy, really, really unhealthy. That... profoundly changed the way that I regard love and healthy love and romantic adult love and how it's supposed to be.

It took me a long time to get there because like I said, you know, my mom was married multiple times. I had then had a couple marriages. I just don't think I ever really had this healthy love model to me. The kind of love that's safe, the kind of love that's secure, the kind of love where you can trust someone, the kind of love where there's open communication.

It took me a long time to get there because like I said, you know, my mom was married multiple times. I had then had a couple marriages. I just don't think I ever really had this healthy love model to me. The kind of love that's safe, the kind of love that's secure, the kind of love where you can trust someone, the kind of love where there's open communication.

It took me a long time to get there because like I said, you know, my mom was married multiple times. I had then had a couple marriages. I just don't think I ever really had this healthy love model to me. The kind of love that's safe, the kind of love that's secure, the kind of love where you can trust someone, the kind of love where there's open communication.

A lot of those pieces were missing in my more recent relationships. And it took me being very, very mistreated, betrayed, deceit, the whole thing. A very toxic relationship that basically just cued my rock bottom ever. And... I had to just go on a real journey and it was during the pandemic and I couldn't go meet my friends out. I couldn't go travel it away.

A lot of those pieces were missing in my more recent relationships. And it took me being very, very mistreated, betrayed, deceit, the whole thing. A very toxic relationship that basically just cued my rock bottom ever. And... I had to just go on a real journey and it was during the pandemic and I couldn't go meet my friends out. I couldn't go travel it away.

A lot of those pieces were missing in my more recent relationships. And it took me being very, very mistreated, betrayed, deceit, the whole thing. A very toxic relationship that basically just cued my rock bottom ever. And... I had to just go on a real journey and it was during the pandemic and I couldn't go meet my friends out. I couldn't go travel it away.

I couldn't go to the bars, you know, whatever it was that would make me like numb out and not feel the pain. And so I had to. I had to figure out what my part in that really bad relationship was and why I was allowing that kind of treatment and why I kept signing back up again and again for that kind of treatment and re-examine my own self-worth.

I couldn't go to the bars, you know, whatever it was that would make me like numb out and not feel the pain. And so I had to. I had to figure out what my part in that really bad relationship was and why I was allowing that kind of treatment and why I kept signing back up again and again for that kind of treatment and re-examine my own self-worth.

I couldn't go to the bars, you know, whatever it was that would make me like numb out and not feel the pain. And so I had to. I had to figure out what my part in that really bad relationship was and why I was allowing that kind of treatment and why I kept signing back up again and again for that kind of treatment and re-examine my own self-worth.

And so when I decided that to go on that journey and then do some intensive therapy and and be alone and not date at all, finally, I had, that's when I had a real transformation and my real healing journey began.

And so when I decided that to go on that journey and then do some intensive therapy and and be alone and not date at all, finally, I had, that's when I had a real transformation and my real healing journey began.

And so when I decided that to go on that journey and then do some intensive therapy and and be alone and not date at all, finally, I had, that's when I had a real transformation and my real healing journey began.

So it took me decades of trying to navigate relationships, not really knowing what it was that I had to work on for myself to summon in the kind of partner that I would really want for my life. And whoo, We finally got there. We finally got there. So I, it's a, it's a, it's work. It's being honest with yourself. It's choosing your... It's self-love.

So it took me decades of trying to navigate relationships, not really knowing what it was that I had to work on for myself to summon in the kind of partner that I would really want for my life. And whoo, We finally got there. We finally got there. So I, it's a, it's a, it's work. It's being honest with yourself. It's choosing your... It's self-love.

So it took me decades of trying to navigate relationships, not really knowing what it was that I had to work on for myself to summon in the kind of partner that I would really want for my life. And whoo, We finally got there. We finally got there. So I, it's a, it's a, it's work. It's being honest with yourself. It's choosing your... It's self-love.

It's consistently showing up for yourself and being the person that you deserve to be for yourself. And then it's funny how when you get that right, then you attract a like person as your partner. And that's the situation I'm in today with Greg.