Chachi

I was.

Well, I think you and I share.

I'm a New Yorker, too.

So we share a little bit of the same mentality, spicy mentality.

go ahead.

I'm sorry.

I got into a Facebook disagreement years ago with someone that I, a coworker that I work with.

And he was like such a great guy, but, and like considered himself an ally.

And like, he, he was so supportive.

Like he wasn't homophobic, but he could not understand the, the, the,

the usage of they, them.

And so we were like talking about it and I was trying to explain where it comes from.

And he's just like, well, I still don't understand why I have to use they.

And I was like, well, you use it in all of these other terms and yada, yada, yada.

And there's all these different areas that you can use it in.

And

We got into this really heated discussion.

And then at the end, I was like, listen, if you are an ally and you are wanting to be supportive of the community, just listen to how people want to be described or talked about or talked to.

I was like, that's all you have to do.

You don't have to understand it.