Chani Nicholas

Yeah, it was a life raft for me. and also being, you know, named the sensitive child because things were upsetting and it upset me.

Yeah, it was a life raft for me. and also being, you know, named the sensitive child because things were upsetting and it upset me.

We can look at that as in both our personal life, but also within the systems of harm and supremacy that we live within. And we talk, you know, as a community, a lot about that, but it's really important to distinguish like, this thing is not well and it's making me feel unwell. And that distinguishing is really important as well.

We can look at that as in both our personal life, but also within the systems of harm and supremacy that we live within. And we talk, you know, as a community, a lot about that, but it's really important to distinguish like, this thing is not well and it's making me feel unwell. And that distinguishing is really important as well.

We can look at that as in both our personal life, but also within the systems of harm and supremacy that we live within. And we talk, you know, as a community, a lot about that, but it's really important to distinguish like, this thing is not well and it's making me feel unwell. And that distinguishing is really important as well.

Yeah. I mean, judgment in an astrological sense is about being able to parse out what. is happening and why it's happening. And so we absolutely obviously need judgment.

Yeah. I mean, judgment in an astrological sense is about being able to parse out what. is happening and why it's happening. And so we absolutely obviously need judgment.

Yeah. I mean, judgment in an astrological sense is about being able to parse out what. is happening and why it's happening. And so we absolutely obviously need judgment.

And because I grew up in a place where people's judgment was literally disconnected, that it getting high or drunk or like, you know, being in the party, you got to let a lot of judgment go so that you can have this like experience of Trying to get to oneness, but you can't actually get to oneness unless you understand who you are and have great boundaries.

And because I grew up in a place where people's judgment was literally disconnected, that it getting high or drunk or like, you know, being in the party, you got to let a lot of judgment go so that you can have this like experience of Trying to get to oneness, but you can't actually get to oneness unless you understand who you are and have great boundaries.

And because I grew up in a place where people's judgment was literally disconnected, that it getting high or drunk or like, you know, being in the party, you got to let a lot of judgment go so that you can have this like experience of Trying to get to oneness, but you can't actually get to oneness unless you understand who you are and have great boundaries.

So part of my judgment stuff is like, I have boundaries. Yes. That is not okay. This is okay. This is where I stop. And this is where I have room. And knowing that is everything. Because if I trust my own boundaries, then part of my hypervigilance can deescalate. It might still come up here and there, but also being a kid that grew up in chaos, I'm hypervigilant all the time.

So part of my judgment stuff is like, I have boundaries. Yes. That is not okay. This is okay. This is where I stop. And this is where I have room. And knowing that is everything. Because if I trust my own boundaries, then part of my hypervigilance can deescalate. It might still come up here and there, but also being a kid that grew up in chaos, I'm hypervigilant all the time.

So part of my judgment stuff is like, I have boundaries. Yes. That is not okay. This is okay. This is where I stop. And this is where I have room. And knowing that is everything. Because if I trust my own boundaries, then part of my hypervigilance can deescalate. It might still come up here and there, but also being a kid that grew up in chaos, I'm hypervigilant all the time.

And so if I don't have discernment and judgment about my own boundaries, I'm going to remain in that agitated hypervigilant state. And that's no good for anybody.

And so if I don't have discernment and judgment about my own boundaries, I'm going to remain in that agitated hypervigilant state. And that's no good for anybody.

And so if I don't have discernment and judgment about my own boundaries, I'm going to remain in that agitated hypervigilant state. And that's no good for anybody.

I think when I am the most compassionate is when I'm reading somebody's chart. Because when I see your chart, I'm inside the setup. And I'm like, oh, of course, this is perfect. This is who you are. I get it. This is your circumstance. This makes so much sense. And when I'm outside of that.

I think when I am the most compassionate is when I'm reading somebody's chart. Because when I see your chart, I'm inside the setup. And I'm like, oh, of course, this is perfect. This is who you are. I get it. This is your circumstance. This makes so much sense. And when I'm outside of that.

I think when I am the most compassionate is when I'm reading somebody's chart. Because when I see your chart, I'm inside the setup. And I'm like, oh, of course, this is perfect. This is who you are. I get it. This is your circumstance. This makes so much sense. And when I'm outside of that.