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Charlotte Cummings

๐Ÿ‘ค Speaker
396 total appearances

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Making Cents
The Emotion Sabotaging Your Money (A Psychologist Explains)

People find this like really surprising when I confess to this.

Making Cents
The Emotion Sabotaging Your Money (A Psychologist Explains)

You know, I've bought all the pretty journals over time and they just have like two or three pages written in them.

Making Cents
The Emotion Sabotaging Your Money (A Psychologist Explains)

I'm not a 5am wake up person that, you know, sits down doing their journaling.

Making Cents
The Emotion Sabotaging Your Money (A Psychologist Explains)

I'm just not that person.

Making Cents
The Emotion Sabotaging Your Money (A Psychologist Explains)

I'm a writer on the back of a scrap of a receipt or the back of an envelope or maybe in the notes section of my phone.

Making Cents
The Emotion Sabotaging Your Money (A Psychologist Explains)

You don't have to do journaling as if it's like a practice that you're doing every day.

Making Cents
The Emotion Sabotaging Your Money (A Psychologist Explains)

If you're, you know, some kind of amazing yogi unicorn and that works for you, go for it.

Making Cents
The Emotion Sabotaging Your Money (A Psychologist Explains)

But that is not me.

Making Cents
The Emotion Sabotaging Your Money (A Psychologist Explains)

We need to embrace, though, that idea of writing down what we're thinking, of being able to look at it on paper and go, oh, that's kind of a bit of a funky picture.

Making Cents
The Emotion Sabotaging Your Money (A Psychologist Explains)

What am I going to do about that?

Making Cents
The Emotion Sabotaging Your Money (A Psychologist Explains)

Or how come I'm thinking that?

Making Cents
The Emotion Sabotaging Your Money (A Psychologist Explains)

Is that thing actually true?

Making Cents
The Emotion Sabotaging Your Money (A Psychologist Explains)

That ability to be reflective with ourselves is such an important life skill, especially when we think about how things like an unbearable feeling hold us back.

Making Cents
The Emotion Sabotaging Your Money (A Psychologist Explains)

So we had lived in the same community for 10 years.

Making Cents
The Emotion Sabotaging Your Money (A Psychologist Explains)

I went for a walk one day with a colleague actually who was visiting and we walked down the road to get coffee.

Making Cents
The Emotion Sabotaging Your Money (A Psychologist Explains)

And here I am stopping, talking to the old man from the rest home that I always have a yarn to and say hello to that neighbor.

Making Cents
The Emotion Sabotaging Your Money (A Psychologist Explains)

And then I get to the cafe and they know exactly what I want.

Making Cents
The Emotion Sabotaging Your Money (A Psychologist Explains)

And my friend said, oh, it's like you're the mayor of this little town.

Making Cents
The Emotion Sabotaging Your Money (A Psychologist Explains)

And it

Making Cents
The Emotion Sabotaging Your Money (A Psychologist Explains)

It wasn't that at all, but I just knew people everywhere.