Charlotte White

That's true.

He should go to therapy.

So I'm glad you just told it to him straight.

100%.

But also it's like putting us in her shoes as well.

It's like, yes, like telling him to go to therapy, you know, fork found in kitchen.

Very obvious.

But also there's no other time to say, I think if I were in her position, I'd be like, oh, there's maybe I have to say it now.

I have to say the go to therapy thing, because if I bring it up at another point, it's just going to be another eruption of anger.

I'm going to have to do the same thing.

I'm still not going to get around to saying the thing I want to say, which is like, go see a professional.

Yeah, well, I'm in two minds.

Yeah, tell me.

My main mind is with you.

My other mind is that, not to make this dark, but someone who expresses themselves like a pretty simple no-offense feeling, expresses themselves in anger, in an anger outburst, public or private, is deeply concerning to me.

And that is kind of like, in the moment, go to therapy.

Mm.

Because this could become something ugly.

And that's why my other mind is also going maybe raise this at another time because maybe he does need to cool down at this point.

There's probably a reason why a lot of couples fight and then they go let's cool it down and let's think about it and decompress and then come back like less emotional to talk about it.