Chelsea Fagan

And actually, when you look at the data, most heterosexual couples, the woman manages all of the day-to-day financial decisions, which make up most of your financial life.

Totally.

However, they don't either they're not allowed to or they don't ask to or it just shakes out that they don't manage all of the long term finances, the retirement, estate planning, you know, investment, all of that kind of stuff.

So I think that that is the number one thing that we try to push back on is this idea that men have some inherent quality that makes them better at financial planning.

It's not true.

I think male comfort is at the center of a lot of this.

But also, I don't know.

I think so.

Something I joke about on the channel is that every woman needs to have like 37 of her own private emergency funds.

Obviously, that's not true.

But every woman should have at least one.

Right.

That is just hers.

That is just in her name that.

can never be touched because even, you know, even in the case of, let's say an amicable, an amicable divorce or, you know, a regular division of assets, there could be a period of time where you can't access things that are jointly held or, or,

There could be a dispute around what percentage is yours versus versus his.

And I think that feeling of like, even on a very logistical level, if I were to leave this relationship tomorrow, how would I eat?

How would I where would I sleep?

All of those questions.

Yeah.