Chelsea Fagan

That's not true.

My sister's a stay at home mother.

Like, I think that that can be

That can be a valid life choice.

But the level of protection that that woman has to give herself in terms of money that is exclusively hers, in terms of a prenup that protects her, in terms of accounts in her name, in terms of retirement, in terms of property, in terms of everything, the level of above and beyond protections that she has to put in place to make sure that if anything were to happen, she won't be

on the street essentially is very, very high because it's also important to remember that it's not just the years that this woman isn't earning.

It is also the huge, huge cost to her career prospects.

A hundred percent.

And also not developing, you know, relevant skills that will make her competitive in the workplace, having an enormous gap on her resume.

Like on every level, if something were to happen to the two of them, she is just in a much, much more vulnerable position.

So yes, it can work out.

Okay.

But you have to put the right protections into place.

And very few people do.

I think the long-term reality though, is just that if you're one of my favorite phrases that people leave all the time on my videos is, you know, if, if,

If the man feeds you, he can starve you, you know, like he it's it's up to him to decide.

And by the way, sometimes it's a matter of he's cheating on you.

He leaves you for another woman.

He's been gambling behind your back.

He's dishonest.