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Chelsea Handler

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The Jamie Kern Lima Show
Chelsea Handler Reveals All! Pt 3 How to Live More, Laugh More, Love More and Finally Feel Free!

That's a side relationship. And I love them and I want to respect everybody, but that's not my main MO in life. That is, I'm not that kind of person.

The Jamie Kern Lima Show
Chelsea Handler Reveals All! Pt 3 How to Live More, Laugh More, Love More and Finally Feel Free!

Yes, and I think it's about the choices we make. My relationship with him, I was so... I started dating Joe when I was at a point in my life where I was in a confusing time. I wasn't embracing myself in the way that I am now. I was unsure of myself. I was insecure about many of the things.

The Jamie Kern Lima Show
Chelsea Handler Reveals All! Pt 3 How to Live More, Laugh More, Love More and Finally Feel Free!

Yes, and I think it's about the choices we make. My relationship with him, I was so... I started dating Joe when I was at a point in my life where I was in a confusing time. I wasn't embracing myself in the way that I am now. I was unsure of myself. I was insecure about many of the things.

The Jamie Kern Lima Show
Chelsea Handler Reveals All! Pt 3 How to Live More, Laugh More, Love More and Finally Feel Free!

I wasn't sure if I even was supposed to be a public person anymore, if anyone cared about whether or not I contributed anything more creatively. And he came into my life and it's very clear to me now why he came in to pick me up and boost me up and remind me of who I am and remind me of what my talents are and what my purpose is and what I'm good at. Instead of forgetting, I was a little bit lost.

The Jamie Kern Lima Show
Chelsea Handler Reveals All! Pt 3 How to Live More, Laugh More, Love More and Finally Feel Free!

I wasn't sure if I even was supposed to be a public person anymore, if anyone cared about whether or not I contributed anything more creatively. And he came into my life and it's very clear to me now why he came in to pick me up and boost me up and remind me of who I am and remind me of what my talents are and what my purpose is and what I'm good at. Instead of forgetting, I was a little bit lost.

The Jamie Kern Lima Show
Chelsea Handler Reveals All! Pt 3 How to Live More, Laugh More, Love More and Finally Feel Free!

And so he kind of picked me up and reminded me of all of the things I had forgotten about myself. And in doing so, loved me, adored me, was just so sweet and everything. And when we had to break up, I had to think about like, am I still allowed to be in this more elevated position where I was as opposed to the position he found me in, right? When we got together.

The Jamie Kern Lima Show
Chelsea Handler Reveals All! Pt 3 How to Live More, Laugh More, Love More and Finally Feel Free!

And so he kind of picked me up and reminded me of all of the things I had forgotten about myself. And in doing so, loved me, adored me, was just so sweet and everything. And when we had to break up, I had to think about like, am I still allowed to be in this more elevated position where I was as opposed to the position he found me in, right? When we got together.

The Jamie Kern Lima Show
Chelsea Handler Reveals All! Pt 3 How to Live More, Laugh More, Love More and Finally Feel Free!

Am I still allowed to be here where he brought me without him as my partner? And the answer was, yes, I'm here by way of you, not because of you. You didn't create me. You picked me up when I was down and I will always be grateful for that. And it's a reminder that, to women everywhere, you know, that relationship, I didn't wanna break up with him. I didn't want to. I felt like I had no choice.

The Jamie Kern Lima Show
Chelsea Handler Reveals All! Pt 3 How to Live More, Laugh More, Love More and Finally Feel Free!

Am I still allowed to be here where he brought me without him as my partner? And the answer was, yes, I'm here by way of you, not because of you. You didn't create me. You picked me up when I was down and I will always be grateful for that. And it's a reminder that, to women everywhere, you know, that relationship, I didn't wanna break up with him. I didn't want to. I felt like I had no choice.

The Jamie Kern Lima Show
Chelsea Handler Reveals All! Pt 3 How to Live More, Laugh More, Love More and Finally Feel Free!

I had to protect myself in a way that he was asking things of me that I wasn't, that were compromising. And I remember like, Am I going to be okay without him? We were so public and it was so much attention and it was so positive. Will I be okay without this man? And the answer was a resounding, yes, you will. You might even be better. So what was he asking that was compromising?

The Jamie Kern Lima Show
Chelsea Handler Reveals All! Pt 3 How to Live More, Laugh More, Love More and Finally Feel Free!

I had to protect myself in a way that he was asking things of me that I wasn't, that were compromising. And I remember like, Am I going to be okay without him? We were so public and it was so much attention and it was so positive. Will I be okay without this man? And the answer was a resounding, yes, you will. You might even be better. So what was he asking that was compromising?

The Jamie Kern Lima Show
Chelsea Handler Reveals All! Pt 3 How to Live More, Laugh More, Love More and Finally Feel Free!

Just what his ideas of a relationship were and the expectations he had of me. And a lot of them were really old fashioned and outdated. And I was never going to sublimate myself in a way where I was... you know, being asked to do things that I wasn't comfortable with. I'm a very strong, independent woman. I like to be alone, as we've mentioned.

The Jamie Kern Lima Show
Chelsea Handler Reveals All! Pt 3 How to Live More, Laugh More, Love More and Finally Feel Free!

Just what his ideas of a relationship were and the expectations he had of me. And a lot of them were really old fashioned and outdated. And I was never going to sublimate myself in a way where I was... you know, being asked to do things that I wasn't comfortable with. I'm a very strong, independent woman. I like to be alone, as we've mentioned.

The Jamie Kern Lima Show
Chelsea Handler Reveals All! Pt 3 How to Live More, Laugh More, Love More and Finally Feel Free!

And he wanted more than I was, you know, than I had to give. I didn't have the bandwidth. Conversely, to the relationship I'm in now, I have the freedom to be myself. I have the freedom to go about my life. And that's why we're still together.

The Jamie Kern Lima Show
Chelsea Handler Reveals All! Pt 3 How to Live More, Laugh More, Love More and Finally Feel Free!

And he wanted more than I was, you know, than I had to give. I didn't have the bandwidth. Conversely, to the relationship I'm in now, I have the freedom to be myself. I have the freedom to go about my life. And that's why we're still together.

The Jamie Kern Lima Show
Chelsea Handler Reveals All! Pt 3 How to Live More, Laugh More, Love More and Finally Feel Free!

No, we have not had a threesome. Not yet. Although I do mention it once in a while. I'll be honest. Yes. I'm like, you know what we should do?

The Jamie Kern Lima Show
Chelsea Handler Reveals All! Pt 3 How to Live More, Laugh More, Love More and Finally Feel Free!

No, we have not had a threesome. Not yet. Although I do mention it once in a while. I'll be honest. Yes. I'm like, you know what we should do?

The Jamie Kern Lima Show
Chelsea Handler Reveals All! Pt 3 How to Live More, Laugh More, Love More and Finally Feel Free!

I'll have what she's having. I've only had a threesome with, oh no, no, no. There was some couple when I was in my early twenties. I had a threesome with a couple. That wasn't very successful though. That was kind of awkward. I've only had threesomes with this one woman. She was a masseuse with my ex-boyfriend and we had threesomes with her several times.

The Jamie Kern Lima Show
Chelsea Handler Reveals All! Pt 3 How to Live More, Laugh More, Love More and Finally Feel Free!

I'll have what she's having. I've only had a threesome with, oh no, no, no. There was some couple when I was in my early twenties. I had a threesome with a couple. That wasn't very successful though. That was kind of awkward. I've only had threesomes with this one woman. She was a masseuse with my ex-boyfriend and we had threesomes with her several times.

The Jamie Kern Lima Show
Chelsea Handler Reveals All! Pt 3 How to Live More, Laugh More, Love More and Finally Feel Free!

Then I hooked up with her a couple of times on my own. And then with my next boyfriend, we also had a threesome with her. But then I lost her number and I don't know where she went, but I would love for her to get back in touch with me. Maybe she'll hear that.