Chelsea Handler

So everyone's just sneaking everything and there was stuff being hidden and just belligerent and just kind of no one making eye contact with any of the people who were coming into our house to help clean or any of the food delivery people. And I just had such an ick feeling, you know, leaving that vacation.

So everyone's just sneaking everything and there was stuff being hidden and just belligerent and just kind of no one making eye contact with any of the people who were coming into our house to help clean or any of the food delivery people. And I just had such an ick feeling, you know, leaving that vacation.

I just kind of felt so, A, taken advantage of and B, I knew I had a responsibility in it because I was the one taking them on these taking them on these lavish vacations and paying for everything and paying for housekeepers to come and clean up after them. No wonder they didn't know how to clean their rooms because they didn't think they had to when they were with me.

I just kind of felt so, A, taken advantage of and B, I knew I had a responsibility in it because I was the one taking them on these taking them on these lavish vacations and paying for everything and paying for housekeepers to come and clean up after them. No wonder they didn't know how to clean their rooms because they didn't think they had to when they were with me.

I just kind of felt so, A, taken advantage of and B, I knew I had a responsibility in it because I was the one taking them on these taking them on these lavish vacations and paying for everything and paying for housekeepers to come and clean up after them. No wonder they didn't know how to clean their rooms because they didn't think they had to when they were with me.

But seeing my sisters clean up dishes, like seeing the kids eat and leave their plates, you know, in the living room. And then my sisters going and picking that stuff up and just seeing the whole behavior of that week. We were on Martha's Vineyard that week. And I remember just at the end of the vacation, I was in one of my, like, I just had gotten pissed, you know?

But seeing my sisters clean up dishes, like seeing the kids eat and leave their plates, you know, in the living room. And then my sisters going and picking that stuff up and just seeing the whole behavior of that week. We were on Martha's Vineyard that week. And I remember just at the end of the vacation, I was in one of my, like, I just had gotten pissed, you know?

But seeing my sisters clean up dishes, like seeing the kids eat and leave their plates, you know, in the living room. And then my sisters going and picking that stuff up and just seeing the whole behavior of that week. We were on Martha's Vineyard that week. And I remember just at the end of the vacation, I was in one of my, like, I just had gotten pissed, you know?

And I got quiet and my sisters were like, oh, she's about to blow, you know? Like, this is, here we go, here we go. It's always like good until Chelsea flips out. And I'm like, no, I'm not gonna flip out. Like, I'm gonna figure out the right way to deal with this. It's not yelling and screaming. It's hard to get anything done with yelling and screaming. I didn't learn on that until I was 40.

And I got quiet and my sisters were like, oh, she's about to blow, you know? Like, this is, here we go, here we go. It's always like good until Chelsea flips out. And I'm like, no, I'm not gonna flip out. Like, I'm gonna figure out the right way to deal with this. It's not yelling and screaming. It's hard to get anything done with yelling and screaming. I didn't learn on that until I was 40.

And I got quiet and my sisters were like, oh, she's about to blow, you know? Like, this is, here we go, here we go. It's always like good until Chelsea flips out. And I'm like, no, I'm not gonna flip out. Like, I'm gonna figure out the right way to deal with this. It's not yelling and screaming. It's hard to get anything done with yelling and screaming. I didn't learn on that until I was 40.

And it's really nice to be able to make a point or have an argument without losing your temper. And so I just thought long and hard and I wrote that letter and revised it and revised it and then I sent it off and it felt fucking awesome. They didn't love it. They did not react, you know, they weren't pleased and it took a while but eventually every single one of them came around.

And it's really nice to be able to make a point or have an argument without losing your temper. And so I just thought long and hard and I wrote that letter and revised it and revised it and then I sent it off and it felt fucking awesome. They didn't love it. They did not react, you know, they weren't pleased and it took a while but eventually every single one of them came around.

And it's really nice to be able to make a point or have an argument without losing your temper. And so I just thought long and hard and I wrote that letter and revised it and revised it and then I sent it off and it felt fucking awesome. They didn't love it. They did not react, you know, they weren't pleased and it took a while but eventually every single one of them came around.

At first it was funny because people were like, that's not me, that's not me. They're talking about, you know, everyone else did that. And I was like, no, no, it's all of you. And it's also all of you to my siblings. I'm like, you're the reason that your children are acting this way too. I'm taking my responsibility, but you're all responsible for your children's behavior too.

At first it was funny because people were like, that's not me, that's not me. They're talking about, you know, everyone else did that. And I was like, no, no, it's all of you. And it's also all of you to my siblings. I'm like, you're the reason that your children are acting this way too. I'm taking my responsibility, but you're all responsible for your children's behavior too.

At first it was funny because people were like, that's not me, that's not me. They're talking about, you know, everyone else did that. And I was like, no, no, it's all of you. And it's also all of you to my siblings. I'm like, you're the reason that your children are acting this way too. I'm taking my responsibility, but you're all responsible for your children's behavior too.

And so then they were included in the letter. They're like, oh no. And then slowly everyone was like, we're sorry. Like you made a good point. But it led to better vacations, right? Yes, it led to a lot more respect and a lot more appreciation. There's really nothing as disappointing as rude children. And not that any of them are rude, but just not considerate enough at that point.

And so then they were included in the letter. They're like, oh no. And then slowly everyone was like, we're sorry. Like you made a good point. But it led to better vacations, right? Yes, it led to a lot more respect and a lot more appreciation. There's really nothing as disappointing as rude children. And not that any of them are rude, but just not considerate enough at that point.

And so then they were included in the letter. They're like, oh no. And then slowly everyone was like, we're sorry. Like you made a good point. But it led to better vacations, right? Yes, it led to a lot more respect and a lot more appreciation. There's really nothing as disappointing as rude children. And not that any of them are rude, but just not considerate enough at that point.