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Chloe Mira

๐Ÿ‘ค Speaker
239 total appearances

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Podcast Appearances

It's A Lot with Abbie Chatfield
My New Reality TV Obsession

Like we all have a level of internalized misogyny and that whore phobia and that whorearchy is just that playing out.

It's A Lot with Abbie Chatfield
My New Reality TV Obsession

And that person needs to like go deeper into whatever's going on.

It's A Lot with Abbie Chatfield
My New Reality TV Obsession

At the end of the day, we're all existing inside this like patriarchal system and like,

It's A Lot with Abbie Chatfield
My New Reality TV Obsession

I think that even me, who's been in the sex work industry for a certain amount of time, it's taken me a long time to work through some internalized beliefs.

It's A Lot with Abbie Chatfield
My New Reality TV Obsession

So everyone's on their own journey.

It's A Lot with Abbie Chatfield
My New Reality TV Obsession

But yeah, I don't have room for people that are going to be judgmental to other sex workers and to other people's personal sex life.

It's A Lot with Abbie Chatfield
My New Reality TV Obsession

So I think it was really layered because there's two things that play there.

It's A Lot with Abbie Chatfield
My New Reality TV Obsession

And it's just neither of them were fair game.

It's A Lot with Abbie Chatfield
My New Reality TV Obsession

You know, I think when I was younger, like in my early twenties, I've definitely always

It's A Lot with Abbie Chatfield
My New Reality TV Obsession

identified with being like a staunch feminist, even back when I was in high school.

It's A Lot with Abbie Chatfield
My New Reality TV Obsession

And in my early 20s, I really didn't understand how you could have feminist beliefs and participate in sex work.

It's A Lot with Abbie Chatfield
My New Reality TV Obsession

Like, to me, those two things just contradicted each other.

It's A Lot with Abbie Chatfield
My New Reality TV Obsession

So it took me like a long time to...

It's A Lot with Abbie Chatfield
My New Reality TV Obsession

basically come around to what we're trying to show the public that this is just another job um there is all these nuances to it we are multi-faceted people we're not necessarily doing this job because we are living our lives for male validation and to hold up the patriarchy and that sex work is a really important part of society it always has been all of these things also that

It's A Lot with Abbie Chatfield
My New Reality TV Obsession

the money that you can or that people earn through sex work is like deserved, like for a really long time.

It's A Lot with Abbie Chatfield
My New Reality TV Obsession

And I think a lot of people think because it's easy money, which it's not, that you're less deserving of the things and the life that you're able to create for yourself.

It's A Lot with Abbie Chatfield
My New Reality TV Obsession

There's so much, yeah.

It's A Lot with Abbie Chatfield
My New Reality TV Obsession

And I'm still, yeah, always working through that stuff.