Chris Budd

All his life had been that person that you've just described.

Never really accumulated much wealth, never put money into savings and pensions, always blew it, and quite often on other people.

buying gifts and so forth, and on his kids when he had kids.

And it was quite late in life that he went for some therapy in his case.

And they took it right back to, he was a small child in a department store with his mum and dad.

And his mum, he got lost.

And he was lost for about 10 minutes in this department store, which is pretty terrifying, the age of four or something like that.

And then when his mum found him, absolutely tore him off, shouted at him and told him off.

Because she was scared and worried.

She was scared, yeah.

Yeah, can't blame her.

You can understand the situation.

But for him, that set in his brain, my mum doesn't love me.

And he kept that belief without realizing it all his life.

And it was a lack of self-worth that meant that when he got money, he would just give it away because he wasn't worthy of having money.

So that's how deep these self-limiting beliefs can go.

How many therapists does it take to change a light bulb?

Only one, but the light bulb's got to really want to change.

It can, yeah.

That to me is... It depends how deep the problem is, doesn't it?