Chris Fettes

I don't have to keep doing it over and over again. Well, that's not true. You do have to keep doing it. Keep seeking. Yeah, but it worked. I found my place in the SEAL teams. I kind of figured out what I was good at. I'm grateful that, and I don't mean this in any kind of arrogance or ego way, but I was never the best guy.

I don't have to keep doing it over and over again. Well, that's not true. You do have to keep doing it. Keep seeking. Yeah, but it worked. I found my place in the SEAL teams. I kind of figured out what I was good at. I'm grateful that, and I don't mean this in any kind of arrogance or ego way, but I was never the best guy.

I don't have to keep doing it over and over again. Well, that's not true. You do have to keep doing it. Keep seeking. Yeah, but it worked. I found my place in the SEAL teams. I kind of figured out what I was good at. I'm grateful that, and I don't mean this in any kind of arrogance or ego way, but I was never the best guy.

But I was able to make it through every hard course, every selection, SEAL Team 6 selection, all that stuff on the first try. Damn. So I'm proud of that. And now I know I originally did it, but now I can also appreciate all of my experiences and even the bad ones. I'm not coping with them anymore and trying to forget them. I actually can remember more about them now.

But I was able to make it through every hard course, every selection, SEAL Team 6 selection, all that stuff on the first try. Damn. So I'm proud of that. And now I know I originally did it, but now I can also appreciate all of my experiences and even the bad ones. I'm not coping with them anymore and trying to forget them. I actually can remember more about them now.

But I was able to make it through every hard course, every selection, SEAL Team 6 selection, all that stuff on the first try. Damn. So I'm proud of that. And now I know I originally did it, but now I can also appreciate all of my experiences and even the bad ones. I'm not coping with them anymore and trying to forget them. I actually can remember more about them now.

after having found a way to just clear all that bullshit, you know, off.

after having found a way to just clear all that bullshit, you know, off.

after having found a way to just clear all that bullshit, you know, off.

I think it was, I don't really remember what age, but I just, I think it was like six or seven. Just having that conversation with my mom and her sort of breaking it to us. Like, this is not your real father, right? And this is not, you know, my younger sister was born then. She's your half-sister. And having to explain that truth must have been really hard for her. But...

I think it was, I don't really remember what age, but I just, I think it was like six or seven. Just having that conversation with my mom and her sort of breaking it to us. Like, this is not your real father, right? And this is not, you know, my younger sister was born then. She's your half-sister. And having to explain that truth must have been really hard for her. But...

I think it was, I don't really remember what age, but I just, I think it was like six or seven. Just having that conversation with my mom and her sort of breaking it to us. Like, this is not your real father, right? And this is not, you know, my younger sister was born then. She's your half-sister. And having to explain that truth must have been really hard for her. But...

You know, if you ever talk to your kids when they're younger too, they kind of like, it's hard to go too in-depth because they just kind of listen and go, yeah, yeah, you know? It's hard to go, how do you really feel about it though? You know, like, I don't know, you know, can I go play? And it was kind of like that, I think.

You know, if you ever talk to your kids when they're younger too, they kind of like, it's hard to go too in-depth because they just kind of listen and go, yeah, yeah, you know? It's hard to go, how do you really feel about it though? You know, like, I don't know, you know, can I go play? And it was kind of like that, I think.

You know, if you ever talk to your kids when they're younger too, they kind of like, it's hard to go too in-depth because they just kind of listen and go, yeah, yeah, you know? It's hard to go, how do you really feel about it though? You know, like, I don't know, you know, can I go play? And it was kind of like that, I think.

So it develops over time into more of an understanding of what was going on, you know? And knowing now that, My mom was just trying her best. She was just doing her best. So any resentments I had afterwards, like, oh, I got accepted into some colleges. I couldn't go. We didn't have the money. You know, the validation thing.

So it develops over time into more of an understanding of what was going on, you know? And knowing now that, My mom was just trying her best. She was just doing her best. So any resentments I had afterwards, like, oh, I got accepted into some colleges. I couldn't go. We didn't have the money. You know, the validation thing.

So it develops over time into more of an understanding of what was going on, you know? And knowing now that, My mom was just trying her best. She was just doing her best. So any resentments I had afterwards, like, oh, I got accepted into some colleges. I couldn't go. We didn't have the money. You know, the validation thing.

Oh, my dad wasn't my real dad, but I didn't get enough validation from a father that I needed. All those resentments went away. once I realized myself again and that they were just doing the best they could and they were good parents.

Oh, my dad wasn't my real dad, but I didn't get enough validation from a father that I needed. All those resentments went away. once I realized myself again and that they were just doing the best they could and they were good parents.