Chris Fettes

Oh, my dad wasn't my real dad, but I didn't get enough validation from a father that I needed. All those resentments went away. once I realized myself again and that they were just doing the best they could and they were good parents.

So traumatic, so hard.

So traumatic, so hard.

So traumatic, so hard.

They use that. I think that the best thing I can say is just, it's hard, but if you even sense that your parents are doing the right thing, so like you want to go do this thing, you want to go to this party and your dad's like, no, there's danger there. And he tries to stop you to get mad. You know, if you, I want, I wish that they could just kind of sit down and go, are my parents good people?

They use that. I think that the best thing I can say is just, it's hard, but if you even sense that your parents are doing the right thing, so like you want to go do this thing, you want to go to this party and your dad's like, no, there's danger there. And he tries to stop you to get mad. You know, if you, I want, I wish that they could just kind of sit down and go, are my parents good people?

They use that. I think that the best thing I can say is just, it's hard, but if you even sense that your parents are doing the right thing, so like you want to go do this thing, you want to go to this party and your dad's like, no, there's danger there. And he tries to stop you to get mad. You know, if you, I want, I wish that they could just kind of sit down and go, are my parents good people?

if they're good people, that's all it takes. Now it's like, you're going to go through hardships. You're going to fight, you're going to battle, but at least know that they're just doing their best with what they have. Right. Because there's always, even if healthy families, you know, Oh, you know, my sister was always the favorite of the family. She could do no wrong, you know? And, and,

if they're good people, that's all it takes. Now it's like, you're going to go through hardships. You're going to fight, you're going to battle, but at least know that they're just doing their best with what they have. Right. Because there's always, even if healthy families, you know, Oh, you know, my sister was always the favorite of the family. She could do no wrong, you know? And, and,

if they're good people, that's all it takes. Now it's like, you're going to go through hardships. You're going to fight, you're going to battle, but at least know that they're just doing their best with what they have. Right. Because there's always, even if healthy families, you know, Oh, you know, my sister was always the favorite of the family. She could do no wrong, you know? And, and,

just realizing that like, that might not be true. It's just, you have a defense mechanism and it might be true. You know, there's some parents that seem healthy and some families that seem healthy and even some in my own family that I've recognized, my in-laws family and my families, that you could still, you could be seemingly a good father and go, hey, if I am making my two sons

just realizing that like, that might not be true. It's just, you have a defense mechanism and it might be true. You know, there's some parents that seem healthy and some families that seem healthy and even some in my own family that I've recognized, my in-laws family and my families, that you could still, you could be seemingly a good father and go, hey, if I am making my two sons

just realizing that like, that might not be true. It's just, you have a defense mechanism and it might be true. You know, there's some parents that seem healthy and some families that seem healthy and even some in my own family that I've recognized, my in-laws family and my families, that you could still, you could be seemingly a good father and go, hey, if I am making my two sons

or either one of them and not the other, especially, compete or they have to prove something, they have to earn my love, that's going to turn into something, right? Especially if you're not... telling them that they have it. I'm trying my best to tell mine what I've realized is like, we're struggling with baseball things. Hey, be aggressive.

or either one of them and not the other, especially, compete or they have to prove something, they have to earn my love, that's going to turn into something, right? Especially if you're not... telling them that they have it. I'm trying my best to tell mine what I've realized is like, we're struggling with baseball things. Hey, be aggressive.

or either one of them and not the other, especially, compete or they have to prove something, they have to earn my love, that's going to turn into something, right? Especially if you're not... telling them that they have it. I'm trying my best to tell mine what I've realized is like, we're struggling with baseball things. Hey, be aggressive.

And then I have my other son who's overly aggressive and I'm like, relax a little. And it's awesome. They're so good, both of them. But I got to tell them in between, because I get amped up. I'm like, God, don't, you know, it's like, I can't tell them like, don't be a pussy. But I'm like, here's how you're aggressive. You can use dark thoughts sometimes.

And then I have my other son who's overly aggressive and I'm like, relax a little. And it's awesome. They're so good, both of them. But I got to tell them in between, because I get amped up. I'm like, God, don't, you know, it's like, I can't tell them like, don't be a pussy. But I'm like, here's how you're aggressive. You can use dark thoughts sometimes.

And then I have my other son who's overly aggressive and I'm like, relax a little. And it's awesome. They're so good, both of them. But I got to tell them in between, because I get amped up. I'm like, God, don't, you know, it's like, I can't tell them like, don't be a pussy. But I'm like, here's how you're aggressive. You can use dark thoughts sometimes.

You can pretend, you know, and I'm like, I just, we've gotten to that where I'm like, how do I get him to be aggressive? Like pretend like the dog, he's got a French bulldog that sleeps on him. Pretend somebody is going to like take him. And the only way to save him is for you to like throw the pitch as hard as you can, just go for it and not care. And now he is, he's like throwing faster.