Chris Fettes
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You can pretend, you know, and I'm like, I just, we've gotten to that where I'm like, how do I get him to be aggressive? Like pretend like the dog, he's got a French bulldog that sleeps on him. Pretend somebody is going to like take him. And the only way to save him is for you to like throw the pitch as hard as you can, just go for it and not care. And now he is, he's like throwing faster.
You can pretend, you know, and I'm like, I just, we've gotten to that where I'm like, how do I get him to be aggressive? Like pretend like the dog, he's got a French bulldog that sleeps on him. Pretend somebody is going to like take him. And the only way to save him is for you to like throw the pitch as hard as you can, just go for it and not care. And now he is, he's like throwing faster.
Now let that go, because those are dark thoughts, but that's what you're supposed to use that part of your ego for, for good, right? To help, to protect, you know? But being careful to go as often as possible, no matter what we do, My love for you is infinite, and it's already there. You already get that just from being born. You're born into it. It's like nepotism for love.
Now let that go, because those are dark thoughts, but that's what you're supposed to use that part of your ego for, for good, right? To help, to protect, you know? But being careful to go as often as possible, no matter what we do, My love for you is infinite, and it's already there. You already get that just from being born. You're born into it. It's like nepotism for love.
Now let that go, because those are dark thoughts, but that's what you're supposed to use that part of your ego for, for good, right? To help, to protect, you know? But being careful to go as often as possible, no matter what we do, My love for you is infinite, and it's already there. You already get that just from being born. You're born into it. It's like nepotism for love.
Not money you're born into. Not yet. But the love is just there. I love you. It's infinite. You don't have to ever earn that shit. You're everything I need you to be, whether you become a janitor or a Major League Baseball player. It's there. I feel like that's working a little bit. Good. Good.
Not money you're born into. Not yet. But the love is just there. I love you. It's infinite. You don't have to ever earn that shit. You're everything I need you to be, whether you become a janitor or a Major League Baseball player. It's there. I feel like that's working a little bit. Good. Good.
Not money you're born into. Not yet. But the love is just there. I love you. It's infinite. You don't have to ever earn that shit. You're everything I need you to be, whether you become a janitor or a Major League Baseball player. It's there. I feel like that's working a little bit. Good. Good.
So that would be my advice to those kids is like, you know, and if you don't feel that that's true from your parents, maybe don't be afraid to ask them, hey, dad, do you love me already, you know? Or do I got to do this shit? Do I got to become a lawyer now? and a doctor like my brother or like, do I got to become an athlete, a tennis player, whatever to get that love, you know?
So that would be my advice to those kids is like, you know, and if you don't feel that that's true from your parents, maybe don't be afraid to ask them, hey, dad, do you love me already, you know? Or do I got to do this shit? Do I got to become a lawyer now? and a doctor like my brother or like, do I got to become an athlete, a tennis player, whatever to get that love, you know?
So that would be my advice to those kids is like, you know, and if you don't feel that that's true from your parents, maybe don't be afraid to ask them, hey, dad, do you love me already, you know? Or do I got to do this shit? Do I got to become a lawyer now? and a doctor like my brother or like, do I got to become an athlete, a tennis player, whatever to get that love, you know?
My dad, when I apologized and I went through this, you know, this was after my, my first Ibogaine experience that just worked for me to, to open up my heart, to go look at all this stuff. Right. Meditation now works for me. Um, There's other ways. Therapy works for people, you know, different things.
My dad, when I apologized and I went through this, you know, this was after my, my first Ibogaine experience that just worked for me to, to open up my heart, to go look at all this stuff. Right. Meditation now works for me. Um, There's other ways. Therapy works for people, you know, different things.
My dad, when I apologized and I went through this, you know, this was after my, my first Ibogaine experience that just worked for me to, to open up my heart, to go look at all this stuff. Right. Meditation now works for me. Um, There's other ways. Therapy works for people, you know, different things.
But when I went and had that conversation with him, it was the first time he ever cried really hard. First time he ever cried that I remember, you know, and it was over the phone. So I couldn't even tell he was crying, but I could hear in his voice, like he said, you know, I appreciate that, son. And it was in his voice. So I know it was the right thing to do to make him understand that.
But when I went and had that conversation with him, it was the first time he ever cried really hard. First time he ever cried that I remember, you know, and it was over the phone. So I couldn't even tell he was crying, but I could hear in his voice, like he said, you know, I appreciate that, son. And it was in his voice. So I know it was the right thing to do to make him understand that.
But when I went and had that conversation with him, it was the first time he ever cried really hard. First time he ever cried that I remember, you know, and it was over the phone. So I couldn't even tell he was crying, but I could hear in his voice, like he said, you know, I appreciate that, son. And it was in his voice. So I know it was the right thing to do to make him understand that.
How could he have reacted? I think if I asked him as a kid, he would have answered me and said, I think he would have said yes. He would have said, I'm talking about my stepfather father.
How could he have reacted? I think if I asked him as a kid, he would have answered me and said, I think he would have said yes. He would have said, I'm talking about my stepfather father.
How could he have reacted? I think if I asked him as a kid, he would have answered me and said, I think he would have said yes. He would have said, I'm talking about my stepfather father.