Chris Harder

Because the truth of the matter is this, you need other people to succeed.

And those other people are attracted to people that seem positive.

They're attracted to people that seem like they're full of positive perspective or opportunity.

They don't want to partner.

They don't want to help with someone who's negative.

They don't want to work with somebody or list someone up who feels like they're always seeing the pessimistic side of things.

And so from a practical standpoint, if you have those practices in place, you're going to show up better.

When people are scared, when they have a lot of fear, they feel like they're typically afraid of the unknown, right?

They feel like things are out of their control.

And so when you start to pull things into your control, for example, if you say, all right, I don't trust the thing that he's saying right now.

I think this is all a bunch of BS, but I'm willing to try it because what I'm doing right now is not working.

So when you start to take things into control by saying, all right, can I picture for five minutes a day the life that I really want?

Yes.

So I'll start doing it, even though I don't believe in it.

And then you say, could I maybe read 10 pages of a positive book every single day to start my day before I do anything else?

Yes, I don't believe in it, but I could do it.

And then when you start to say, okay, could I go to a self development thing?

Or could I get a coach?

Or could I do these things?

That I don't believe in, but technically I could do it.