Chris Harder

Yes.

Now look what's happening.

Your fear comes from thinking you don't have control, but now you're starting to control your perspective.

Now you're starting to control who's going to come into your life and who's not.

Now you're starting to control some of the actions that you take.

And those things have a snowball effect.

And before you know it, you're going to start to see little wins and little wins will string together into what feels like a medium sized win.

And you say, wow, this might actually be working.

And those medium sized wins will string together into what you look back on and say, holy crap, this is a massive win.

And it's just if you could trace it all the way back, it traces back to

You are afraid because you feel like you don't have control.

But if you control the little baby things, even if you don't trust them yet, if you control the little baby things that control your perspective, that then control your actions, that then control your results, you do that long enough and consistently enough, it's inevitable that you're going to end up getting to where you want to get.

No, Heather, there's been so many things I do, tiny little habits that I think are complete BS.

Like I'm like, remember I told Lori and we have the agreement, well, I try things on for size.

So I have tried so many things on for size that I thought this is the biggest load of BS, but I'm going to do it because I promise to try it on for size.

And so I could do it.

So I, therefore I did do it and I did do it long and consistently enough.

to all of a sudden where I realized, wait, I'm getting some positive results.

And so even if I don't trust it yet, if I'm getting positive results from something, I'm going to keep doing it.

And as you get more positive results, that compounds into a bigger positive result and so on.