Chris Williamson

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When you select a partner, whether you realize it or not, you're choosing a whole lifestyle and not just the person.

You're choosing their sleep schedule.

You're choosing their money habits.

You're choosing their stress levels, their family drama, their levels of cleanliness, their work ethic, their coping mechanisms.

All of these things will be a baseline of your daily life.

If their normal is doom scrolling till 2 a.m., avoiding all conflict, impulse spending, and never exercising,

Guess what?

You're signing up to live in that ecosystem.

Love does not cancel out people's flaws.

In fact, love just makes you tolerate them for longer.

Most people obsess over, do we have romantic chemistry?

And they completely skip, can I live with this person's version of a Tuesday for the next 10 years?

The hard truth is you don't fix somebody's lifestyle from the inside.

You either accept the package as they are or you walk.

Mm-hmm.

I mean, you're settling in that you can't fly at the moment.