Chris Williamson

Exactly, yeah, yeah, yeah.

I imagine that they made you feel like this, or of course you'd be upset about this.

Why wouldn't you be upset about that?

Yeah, I said something big.

And then three, it's the element of we're still a team.

I'm still working towards this.

You kind of have to have this element of hope where it's, we're going to still continue to work this out.

We're going to continue to get better at this.

You got to keep working through it.

And it's depending on what you did.

There's got to be apologies, of course.

Yeah, I believe that the quality of the relationship doesn't depend on how good are the good times.

It's can you be with them through the bad times?

How good are the bad times?

Yeah, exactly.

The hard, the really hard conversations because that's,

Those are invitations to grow deeper together, to bond more, to get closer together, to be known, to be fully known with that person.

You don't get that in the first few dates.

You get that in the 15-year knock-down, drag-out, who am I, what am I doing conversations.

That's where you get to see really what's there inside.