Chris Williamson

Yeah, that's a good one.

Yeah.

Yeah, because I think in all relationships, especially romantic relationships, there can be this feeling of somebody is afraid they're being too much.

That's why we may not want to express all of our emotions.

We're afraid they're going to be too much.

Then the other person's not going to be able to carry it, hold it.

They're going to dismiss it.

They're going to see it as all the things that we're telling us in our head is it's not going to be there.

They're not going to be able to support me.

I'm going to be too much.

I'm going to be left by myself.

I'm going to have to carry this by myself.

But that kind of language to say my emotions are big enough for this moment.

I've said to my kids, which we love to say is like, my love for you is big enough to handle this.

My love for you is big enough for even this little outburst or you doing something wrong, my love for you covers all of this.

And you don't have to worry about having to perform or having to have the right answer.

Like my son right now, he's eight.

And so he's finding his way through

like a lot of school boys during recess or right after pickup, they throw the football just back and forth into like crowds of boys.

And it gets really easy of like who can throw the best, who can kick the best.