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Chris Williamson

๐Ÿ‘ค Speaker
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Modern Wisdom
#1080 - Pursuit of Wonder - The Terrible Paradox of Self-Awareness

That's great.

Modern Wisdom
#1080 - Pursuit of Wonder - The Terrible Paradox of Self-Awareness

It's just... It's such a fucking all-encompassing emotion, anger.

Modern Wisdom
#1080 - Pursuit of Wonder - The Terrible Paradox of Self-Awareness

So trying to think rationally when you're in it is not easy.

Modern Wisdom
#1080 - Pursuit of Wonder - The Terrible Paradox of Self-Awareness

I guess it depends.

Modern Wisdom
#1080 - Pursuit of Wonder - The Terrible Paradox of Self-Awareness

A lot of people convert anger into other emotions.

Modern Wisdom
#1080 - Pursuit of Wonder - The Terrible Paradox of Self-Awareness

And a lot of the time, these are people for whom anger wasn't allowed as a kid.

Modern Wisdom
#1080 - Pursuit of Wonder - The Terrible Paradox of Self-Awareness

It wasn't allowed in the household.

Modern Wisdom
#1080 - Pursuit of Wonder - The Terrible Paradox of Self-Awareness

There wasn't a safe place to express anger.

Modern Wisdom
#1080 - Pursuit of Wonder - The Terrible Paradox of Self-Awareness

Maybe there was a fragile parent or an overly disciplinarian parent or

Modern Wisdom
#1080 - Pursuit of Wonder - The Terrible Paradox of Self-Awareness

a parent who had anger problems of their own or an absent parent who couldn't really hold that for them.

Modern Wisdom
#1080 - Pursuit of Wonder - The Terrible Paradox of Self-Awareness

And I think it's really important for people to understand if there's something bubbling inside of you.

Modern Wisdom
#1080 - Pursuit of Wonder - The Terrible Paradox of Self-Awareness

The world is basically split into two kinds of people.

Modern Wisdom
#1080 - Pursuit of Wonder - The Terrible Paradox of Self-Awareness

There's people who get mad and people that get sad, but both of them are generated from the same place.

Modern Wisdom
#1080 - Pursuit of Wonder - The Terrible Paradox of Self-Awareness

Like the anger gets turned outward or the anger gets turned inward.

Modern Wisdom
#1080 - Pursuit of Wonder - The Terrible Paradox of Self-Awareness

And the anger that gets turned inward, that's not the job of anger.

Modern Wisdom
#1080 - Pursuit of Wonder - The Terrible Paradox of Self-Awareness

The job of anger evolutionarily is you crossed a boundary and there's no police force around.

Modern Wisdom
#1080 - Pursuit of Wonder - The Terrible Paradox of Self-Awareness

So I'm going to behave in a way that shows you that you can't do it again and shows anybody else who's watching that they can't fuck with me in the same way that you did because we don't have laws to enforce this.

Modern Wisdom
#1080 - Pursuit of Wonder - The Terrible Paradox of Self-Awareness

So my emotional response to you is going to show you how far you crossed over the line and it's not going to happen again.

Modern Wisdom
#1080 - Pursuit of Wonder - The Terrible Paradox of Self-Awareness

That's the job of anger.

Modern Wisdom
#1080 - Pursuit of Wonder - The Terrible Paradox of Self-Awareness

So for the...