Christian Huff

I have same-sex attraction, and that's part of my story.

What do you think?

Don't do that.

Don't do that.

That was years in.

It made sense in the moment that I shared with her because we had to work through some stuff because like what I did not want to do is just be like pretend.

And then we get married and it's like, oh, by the way, here's this bomb.

And so that mattered to me.

So it was like a process.

But I would say that like for couples that are dating, something that we talk about is like do hold nothing like by the time before you get married.

Yes.

Like they you need to like that person needs to know everything about you.

They need to know they are literally attaching their life to you and this holy bond.

Like so like you can't hide back in anything.

you've got to tell them everything about you.

So it's like, there's a, there is a moment that it's like, okay, now's the time to like really open this up and it could be scary.

But the flip side of that, that I experienced is when you do that and the person moved towards you, then moves towards you, then you get the grace of God in a way that you've never experienced, which is really beautiful.

But I'll let you speak to more on like the dating.

I mean, you.

Ultimately what brought us together is we surrendered.