Christian Huff

We both surrendered.

We laid down the idea.

You were done.

Like when at the end, Jordan's like, I'm done.

We broke up tears.

Like she starts hitting somebody else.

Like she's like, I'm, I can't be in this for my own.

It's not good for me.

And I had to figure out the whole thing I talked about before, like just with like figuring out like I'm doing this because I want to honor God, not, you know, not just please Jordan.

And it was truly a surrender for both of us of laying down the relationship that ultimately two years later brought us back together.

And that's why we're married now.

And we were at the village.

Because we were at the village church in Dallas and like one of us would be leading worship, the other one wouldn't.

And we'd be like...

standing in the back row, trying not to let them see us get distracted.

And your response to me helped me.

It helped normalize this particular struggle.

where culture makes it so other than, the way that Jordan responded to me was like, oh, that's your struggle.

Okay, cool.

Like, we're going to fight that.