Christiana

Should life be like that? Trevor, do you want kids?

Should life be like that? Trevor, do you want kids?

That's for another episode.

That's for another episode.

Oh, you haven't?

Oh, you haven't?

Oh, interesting.

Oh, interesting.

I think you two both make great fathers.

I think you two both make great fathers.

I think you make great fathers and... Maybe one of the sad things about the world is that I have friends that are like child free by choice and they'd make the most brilliant mothers and fathers. And it's often the people that are making the real calculus who've done that deep spiritual work, who like experienced ego death.

I think you make great fathers and... Maybe one of the sad things about the world is that I have friends that are like child free by choice and they'd make the most brilliant mothers and fathers. And it's often the people that are making the real calculus who've done that deep spiritual work, who like experienced ego death.

who make the decision not to be parents, who would make brilliant parents. I agree with you. But at the end of the day, I think I don't see, I came to a point where I don't see my children as possessions. Maybe this is very Christian mentality. I'm like, you know, a gift from God. God has given me them to kind of guide in this world and uncover who they're supposed to be.

who make the decision not to be parents, who would make brilliant parents. I agree with you. But at the end of the day, I think I don't see, I came to a point where I don't see my children as possessions. Maybe this is very Christian mentality. I'm like, you know, a gift from God. God has given me them to kind of guide in this world and uncover who they're supposed to be.

But they're not just mine. So I don't think you have to have children yourself biologically to parent.

But they're not just mine. So I don't think you have to have children yourself biologically to parent.

And I feel like if we had a more expansive view of parenting, that children around us are our collective responsibility.

And I feel like if we had a more expansive view of parenting, that children around us are our collective responsibility.

Then it's like, do you want biological children that live in your house?

Then it's like, do you want biological children that live in your house?