Chuck Bryant

It's like just setting her up for, unless she really therapies through that stuff later in life, of just a series of terrible relationships.

Exactly, yes, yes.

You can't, forgiveness isn't always the thing.

I have a friend who had a terrible thing happen to him when he was younger.

And we talked a lot about this, and he has forgiven that person in his heart.

And I was like, well, I haven't.

And I was like, I'm still angry about it.

And he was like, thanks.

Like, that helps.

Like, I'm angry and have not forgiven on his behalf.

And I thought he was going to say like, no, man, you need to do the same.

And he was like, thank you, man.

I appreciate that.

Yeah.

And I think that's another thing worth pointing out too, is we have this concept of people who forgive others being saintly.

And it's not necessarily that kind of a thing.

It's not necessarily that kind of a process.

Sometimes it is just straight up self-preservation.

Like you are, that's the way that you're going to get to a point where you can feel peace again in your life.

And