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Cindy

๐Ÿ‘ค Speaker
893 total appearances

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Everyone Has An Ex
While You Were Sleeping

So the police still took me to the hospital, which was fine on the way there.

Everyone Has An Ex
While You Were Sleeping

So about 20 minutes or so after I had given them that quick rundown, one of the police officers turned around in the car and they just said, hey, look,

Everyone Has An Ex
While You Were Sleeping

Just to let you know, there's no statute of limitations when it comes to sexual abuse.

Everyone Has An Ex
While You Were Sleeping

So if you want to report it today, you can, or if you want to report it in 10 years, you can.

Everyone Has An Ex
While You Were Sleeping

So I was just like, okay, yeah, sure.

Everyone Has An Ex
While You Were Sleeping

And I went to a mental health evaluation unit.

Everyone Has An Ex
While You Were Sleeping

I sat there in a glass room for maybe five or six hours and I had a lot of time to think.

Everyone Has An Ex
While You Were Sleeping

And having it validated by the police that it was sexual abuse, because that term hadn't entered my mind, that was a moment where I decided to report what had happened because just having that validation was...

Everyone Has An Ex
While You Were Sleeping

very eye-opening.

Everyone Has An Ex
While You Were Sleeping

And it took me, I sat there in that room for hours and, you know, I didn't even pick up my phone.

Everyone Has An Ex
While You Were Sleeping

I was just thinking and going over everything, going over the last few months, the last few years.

Everyone Has An Ex
While You Were Sleeping

And it seemed like that was the right thing to do because at that time I was feeling like

Everyone Has An Ex
While You Were Sleeping

The narrative was being completely flipped to make me look unstable, which I think is what the welfare check was for.

Everyone Has An Ex
While You Were Sleeping

I had all the specialists come in.

Everyone Has An Ex
While You Were Sleeping

They did what they had to do and answered all their questions.

Everyone Has An Ex
While You Were Sleeping

And basically they diagnosed it as an adjustment reaction or adjustment disorder, which is

Everyone Has An Ex
While You Were Sleeping

It's a strong but temporary response to a stressful life event.

Everyone Has An Ex
While You Were Sleeping

There were times where I did question, am I okay?