Cinzia

I'd really love your thoughts because right now my heart feels very confused and very fragile.

Love from Canada.

Well...

And I think the problem is that these men, they don't want to have that conversation.

They shut it down.

They shut it down.

They say whatever they say.

you move on yeah yeah i think that's the realization yes that's awful to come to in that situation like we're five years in i'm trying to what we're waiting for commitment out of you and i can't even talk to you about it like i've tried to sit you down many times but i'm gonna have to remove myself from the situation if you can't yeah because you're obviously not on the same page yeah but you're gonna drift what gonna drift for another couple of years i know no and they just want they just want to coast along the boyfriends

in the forefront of your mind cicely was booked yeah maybe a few of her friends had got engaged she's thinking oh my god i'm next and she just got so in her head yeah yeah yeah so she's got the reassurance that it's probably gonna happen he wants to get the verbal reassurance just gotta breathe and go with the flow and let him take the reins let him take control don't you want a man that can take the reins occasionally yeah you don't want to plan you want to be surprised yeah you don't want to know when it's coming yes yes okay next one baby

As if he's like the prize and like the most amazing thing that I should change my whole life for him when I'm 23.

I need to go after my career.

Yes, that's right.

It's like whatever he wants to do, you've got to support me, but I won't support you.

Yes.

That's literally what he's saying.

Yes.

Like you'll have sex with me now, but I'm not going to stay with you if you go wherever you are.

If you choose the job over me, which is, you know.

I think our Sarah at the end, she's kind of realizing actually this isn't the relationship that I once thought it was.

Yeah.