Clare Stephens

But I think this kind of extends to the fact that with any, I have a theory that with any person, whether they're a child or a teenager or a pig, not a person, but a pig, a dog, anything like that,

You should be asking people to lift to the very upper limit of what they're capable of.

And if you don't do that, you're doing a disservice to them.

And I think there is – it's an ambiguous space in every romantic relationship because – and I think you guys have talked about it on this show that like –

In an ideal relationship, it's not kind of giving 50-50.

It's each party giving like 100%.

Like you are both giving, giving, giving, giving.

But then sometimes you do turn around and you go, hold on, I've got a spoiled pig in my house.

And do I, is it a really kind, beautiful thing that I do a lot for this person and I don't complain and I don't mention it?

I mean, I'm saying that all I do is nag and whinge.

But, or should I be holding that person to a higher standard and pointing out all the things I'm doing?

I think that's kind of something women struggle with.

And then you start oinking and he's like, what have I done?

Too much growling.

What have I done?

Snapping, taking food.

Flat palm, flat palm.

Outlouders, in a moment, the things that just aren't working in 2026, and I'm personally sick of being quiet about them.

I have a question.

Too much detail.