Clarissa Rojas
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it's like what happens when you're right it's like it's like an ego thing yeah it's like it fills them up or fuels them somehow i don't freaking know but yeah i think well even being transparent i think early on in my walk well we even talked about that i had a lot of those problems like i wanted to be right so bad to where i was actually proving myself absolutely so wrong when i was doing that but i think the the wanting of wanting to be right comes from wanting to be heard seen and loved
it's like what happens when you're right it's like it's like an ego thing yeah it's like it fills them up or fuels them somehow i don't freaking know but yeah i think well even being transparent i think early on in my walk well we even talked about that i had a lot of those problems like i wanted to be right so bad to where i was actually proving myself absolutely so wrong when i was doing that but i think the the wanting of wanting to be right comes from wanting to be heard seen and loved
With no consequences or afflictions. Yeah. But knowing that you're heard, seen, and loved through Christ alone and you don't have to beg all these people to hear and see you or whatever it may be when Christ already validates you and what you proclaim is his truth and not yours. So even the responsibility doesn't even fall on you. It falls on the Lord because it's his truth. Yeah.
With no consequences or afflictions. Yeah. But knowing that you're heard, seen, and loved through Christ alone and you don't have to beg all these people to hear and see you or whatever it may be when Christ already validates you and what you proclaim is his truth and not yours. So even the responsibility doesn't even fall on you. It falls on the Lord because it's his truth. Yeah.
It's not your knowledge. It's his. Yeah.
It's not your knowledge. It's his. Yeah.
I even believe with when a person is kind of like eager about those things, like or like, like you said, that fake anger of like, oh, you need to change or like you need to do this, you need to do that, whatever it is. It's this one. If you haven't been through the problem either, don't go talking about it. Like, for example, like if...
I even believe with when a person is kind of like eager about those things, like or like, like you said, that fake anger of like, oh, you need to change or like you need to do this, you need to do that, whatever it is. It's this one. If you haven't been through the problem either, don't go talking about it. Like, for example, like if...
Or if you're dealing with the same exact thing, like if you haven't been delivered from it either, don't go like trying to deliver somebody else from it. But like, for example, if I never struggled with modesty or being modest, I would never go to someone and be like, blah, blah, blah. Cause I don't, I can't sympathize with you in that area. I don't know your struggle in that.
Or if you're dealing with the same exact thing, like if you haven't been delivered from it either, don't go like trying to deliver somebody else from it. But like, for example, if I never struggled with modesty or being modest, I would never go to someone and be like, blah, blah, blah. Cause I don't, I can't sympathize with you in that area. I don't know your struggle in that.
But if anything, I could encourage you and be like, Hey, look like, you know, the Lord can sympathize with you in this or in this area, in that area, in whatever areas you were struggling with. Right. And it's just like, I would just never correct somebody in an area that I haven't gone through myself because I haven't learned it or I haven't been taught.
But if anything, I could encourage you and be like, Hey, look like, you know, the Lord can sympathize with you in this or in this area, in that area, in whatever areas you were struggling with. Right. And it's just like, I would just never correct somebody in an area that I haven't gone through myself because I haven't learned it or I haven't been taught.
Or even there's times where like, this is me being so transparent. I'd be at like church services and I would feel like, because I love to just pray for people and help people. That's just me. And I remember there was one girl. Beside me, they were like, if you're dealing with fear and anxiety, raise your hand and have people come lay hands on you or whatever.
Or even there's times where like, this is me being so transparent. I'd be at like church services and I would feel like, because I love to just pray for people and help people. That's just me. And I remember there was one girl. Beside me, they were like, if you're dealing with fear and anxiety, raise your hand and have people come lay hands on you or whatever.
And this girl said she was dealing with fear and anxiety. And they were like, go pray for her. And I felt the Lord be like, don't pray for her because you're struggling with the same exact thing. And how could you deliver another person when you can't even allow me to deliver you?
And this girl said she was dealing with fear and anxiety. And they were like, go pray for her. And I felt the Lord be like, don't pray for her because you're struggling with the same exact thing. And how could you deliver another person when you can't even allow me to deliver you?
man and I was like yeah let me just sit back and deal with this it's like in other areas where I know like I'm not gonna advise someone in an area where I'm also struggling yeah and so I think that that moment though like I remember it I stood back and I was like dang like that made me
man and I was like yeah let me just sit back and deal with this it's like in other areas where I know like I'm not gonna advise someone in an area where I'm also struggling yeah and so I think that that moment though like I remember it I stood back and I was like dang like that made me
actually want to heal not just for the sake of myself but also for the sake to help other people yes consider others as more important than yourself yeah because that's really what it's about it's about serving others and helping others like even the king didn't come to be served he came to serve yeah and um i want to add language a little bit more to that um the anger and the getting mad because we've talked about this where it's like it becomes a self-righteous thing because you already know
actually want to heal not just for the sake of myself but also for the sake to help other people yes consider others as more important than yourself yeah because that's really what it's about it's about serving others and helping others like even the king didn't come to be served he came to serve yeah and um i want to add language a little bit more to that um the anger and the getting mad because we've talked about this where it's like it becomes a self-righteous thing because you already know