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Colman Nocter

πŸ‘€ Speaker
71 total appearances

Appearances Over Time

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Ray D'Arcy Daily
Weekend Catch Up

Or can it make me better at breaking a pattern?

Ray D'Arcy Daily
Weekend Catch Up

There's always patterns in our lives.

Ray D'Arcy Daily
Weekend Catch Up

But in every relationship,

Ray D'Arcy Daily
Weekend Catch Up

The main two struggles in any relationship, especially an intimate relationship, is that we seek intimacy and sovereignty or independence.

Ray D'Arcy Daily
Weekend Catch Up

And we want that at different levels.

Ray D'Arcy Daily
Weekend Catch Up

Yeah, the idea of... So picture the scenario.

Ray D'Arcy Daily
Weekend Catch Up

One husband and wife had an argument.

Ray D'Arcy Daily
Weekend Catch Up

He goes away for a little while.

Ray D'Arcy Daily
Weekend Catch Up

He comes back and he has this apology that says, look, I realise what I did.

Ray D'Arcy Daily
Weekend Catch Up

I see it now.

Ray D'Arcy Daily
Weekend Catch Up

I didn't take your feelings into account.

Ray D'Arcy Daily
Weekend Catch Up

I'm really sorry that happened.

Ray D'Arcy Daily
Weekend Catch Up

That will never happen again.

Ray D'Arcy Daily
Weekend Catch Up

If it happens again, I want you to call me out on it because you're the most important person in my life.

Ray D'Arcy Daily
Weekend Catch Up

I care about you deeply and I love you.

Ray D'Arcy Daily
Weekend Catch Up

And she's delighted with that.

Ray D'Arcy Daily
Weekend Catch Up

She's delighted.

Ray D'Arcy Daily
Weekend Catch Up

She's delighted until she realizes he got that from ChatGPT, right?

Ray D'Arcy Daily
Weekend Catch Up

So how much...

Ray D'Arcy Daily
Weekend Catch Up

wait, does that apology hold now?