Coltan Scrivner

Of course, people are injured, but they're boundaries, right?

There's a ref who stops it if it goes too far.

There are a few rules.

So when I call it a simulation, I just mean that it's not an all out fight.

But you're watching the closest thing you can see to an all out fight.

And you're seeing what is successful and what is unsuccessful and who is successful and who is unsuccessful and how does that unfold?

And I think men do that to a much greater degree than women.

Women tend to do the pre-planning thing.

They tend to plan, okay, who's even going to be dangerous?

Who can I predict that would be dangerous?

And men are a little more interested in the act of violence itself.

And I think that maps onto the kinds of violence that men and women are subject to, right?

Men are...

killed more than women by far in any kind of violence but women if they are going to be harmed tend to be harmed by someone they know really well which is usually in the case of a true crime story it's like a partner or a romantic interest or someone who's trying to get close to them

Men tend to get killed by people they don't know at all.

So they tend to get killed by strangers.

And that's true historically as well.

Battles and wars and bar fights today.

You tend to get injured or killed by someone you don't know.

That tends to be how fights are, right?