Colton

What's up?

Yeah.

So I'll ask a question and I'll give a little bit of background.

Um, that's why I'm asking the question.

So my question is, is, uh, how do I have, uh, the talk about sex and things around that with my boys?

Um, my oldest is 13.

So I feel like I'm late to the game on it.

Um, if I've not, if I've not had that conversation, um, before now, um, but, uh, reason I'm asking is cause, uh,

me and my wife, we, uh, grew up in super religious, um, backgrounds, uh, very strict on that.

And, uh, the way sex was portrayed to us back then was, you know, sex is bad, you know, touching and all that kind of stuff.

Um, I mean, even, uh, up until, um, we got married when we were engaged and stuff like that, we weren't, we didn't spend no time alone with each other.

Um, things like that.

So it, there was a lot of unanswered questions when it comes to that.

And, um, then we, uh,

we got married and then it was like, you know, Hey, you know, everything's on the table.

Have a good, you know, have a great day and, uh, kind of left in the dark on it.

Um, so, and me and my wife, we, we got married when we were, um, 19 and, uh, we weren't, we weren't ready for marriage at all.

Um, I know I've heard you say, you know, that sex is, you know,

the symptom not necessarily the cause uh it could be the cause too but yeah i can it can it can bubble up in your in your sex life for sure that's right that's right and so we had a very unstable um few years the first few years of marriage talking about from emotionally to financially um all that and um sex was a big one um you know the only thing i knew

about was from work.